Man, that sucks so much, doesn't it? When your decades-older father has better, younger-looking hair than you?
I know your pain, brother, my father didn't have a single grey hair in his late forties, yet I started greying (beard, especially) in my 30s, but MUCH WORSE than this, I started balding around 18-19 and not just around the top, but a greatly receding hairline too - I'm getting it from all sides, dammit! By the time I was 23 there was no hiding it, yet he still had all his (dark) hair (albeit thinning a little) in his late 40s! His father still had all his hair too when he died in his early 60s, and so did my maternal grandfather (though he was fully grey/white by 60) but WTF is it with that "hair loss/ male pattern baldness is genetic / it often skip a generation" bullcrap? I'm a perfect case of a total exception! (And no, I'm definitely not adopted) Argh, I'm so pissed off, I really did lose the "genetic lottery" when it came to hair.
I sort of agree with you about Kelly, too, I didn't even recognize her, as I hadn't seen her face in decades, but the more I saw her, the more familiar she became, then the thunderbolt came "Oh, no! That looks like Kelly McGillis! Can it really be her??" It took me a few more minutes looking intently at her face to confirm it to myself, and even then I had to FULLY confirm it by checking imdb - that's how startling it was, even once I'd realized it, I still couldn't quite let myself really believe it!
I too lusted after her as a teenager in Top Gun and in Witness... (it should be said that those films were already a few years old when I was a teen, though).
Truly, the ravages of time on a beautiful woman is such a heartbreaking thing for so many reasons: a hard-hitting reminder of our own mortality, of our decline, of losing our magnificence, the needless destruction of something so beautiful, the inexorable passage of time... and I speak as someone who actually advocates growing old gracefully - Catherine Deneuve, Raquel Welch... it does happen now and again in the acting world - and while I don't think Kelly's face is a horror show (not the way some actors and actresses who get extensive plastic surgery end up) but just a naturally, normally aged face, it still startled and saddened me greatly.
"It's too late... Always has been, always will be...
Too late."
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