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Um... India is not that backwards


This sh*t pisses me off. India is not that backwards. Particularly for the "outsourced" culture booming in India. This just perpetuates lame stereotypes.

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Just enjoy the predictable yet amusing antics. Don't think so damn much about it.

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Dating is common in India. Just thought I'd put it out there in case not everyone knew.

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you get stoned to death in india if you date

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Oh, sorry. I was mistaking you for a tard who just wanted to hate on the show. My bad!
I agree with you. But they needed some kind of goofy storyline like that, to fit in all of this pre-relationship type stuff between the co-worker and boss. So it figures.

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yea dating is allowed in some areas that are developed such as mumbai but in a lot of other places such as villages it wouldn't be allowed india still is a backwards country in MANY areas and I speak from experience a lot of the stuff shown in this show is so true not everything but a lot, which is why so many people can relate. India hasn't advanced past opening up to gay people they ban movies that involve such ideas. Indian men beat their women, I know so many friends that have grown up with domestic violence, the caste system is still used, sex is frowned upon, and for the people that do date in india they are looked at badly or looked as trying to be too american the country has its faults.

I think this show addresses these issues in a comical way that many can relate to. like in the episode of arranged marriages, that is still practiced to this day thats why shaadi.com exists and matrimonials exist, but I thought it was handled well in the outsourced episode. It is sooo true you're basically having a permanent one night stand one of my friends said that to me even before that episode aired and I laughed at that comment cause a lot of people a lot of indian people feel the way some of these things are expressed on this show.

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ehh, dating isn't that great. maybe the non-dating parts have it right. it's not necessarily backwards not to date. you can also choose your own husbands and wives without dating.

If India is a place of massive domestic violence, castes and extensive misery, then there's no way the show can possibly be realistic and be light-hearted and funny. I think they have to treat this office as an intermediate zone where people are freer (although some prefer the traditional ways)
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Not that backwards? Have you seen the idiot drivers on History's IRT: Deadliest Roads?

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No, but it doesn't help.

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And every other neighbor of mine.

And every employee at every Dunkin' Donuts I've ever been in.

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Who cares?

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It doesn't...it just helps form my opinion of what I think of them.

And if they're country is so great by the way, why are they all flocking here?

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Perhaps "all" was a bit of an exaggeration, but I don't see too many from here flocking over there.

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I'm sure there are some, but the flow of emigration is definitely more one-sided than not.

Btw, I just went to Dunkin' Donuts so I figured I'd take the opportunity to ask one of the employees his country of origin. You were correct...although he was from India, he said some of the others were from Bangladesh and "other countries"

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it's not necessarily backwards not to date

I agree. But the issue here is not whether dating is backwards. What is backwards in this case is not that people don't date but that they don't have the option.

Dating does certainly not mean that the couple will be more successful. The fact that more than 50% of the marriages in the US end up in divorce says a lot.

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I don't disagree. In almost every country, conservative or not, people are more liberal (in a good sense) in the big cities. It's a matter of percentages. If only 5-10% of a country can date, that's not progressive.

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One thing which people from the West do, especially America is they tend to stereotype based on a significant group but not the whole picture - India has got immense problems such as poverty, and yes in rural areas at times old things like the caste discrimination still come in use. When it comes to Domestic violence, I don't think we should point fingers here - the majority of Indian men aren't even in the slightest bit abusive at all compared to many white men and black men - also depending where you go in India I know that domestic violence in the Punjab region is higher than than of South India (India has different races, cultures, and different perspectives how they view things wherever you go so it depends) - overall though America and many other places such as the UK still have high problems of domestic violence, and even though the UK and the US are really developed you also hear of the sickest cases there - children killing other children, children killing their own parents, and various high school shootings like Columbine for example - that does not happen in India.

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India is a *beep*hole. Sure you have a very small minority (as needed) of Indians kissing the whitemens asses while they watch their country being raped of it's resources. And people like this usually looks and talk (or try to) american., prefers western culture over it's own. But that is not the real India. Same thing is happening in places like Indonesia, Thailand, etc. Their malls are amazing, better than even in most countries. They get the same gadgets, fashion as the US, but MOST OF THE *beep* COUNTRY IS IN EXTREME POVERTY.

Elitist locals who thinks they're better than their own country men likes to crowd themselves with their own and forget the reality of whats happening just across the streets from those luxury places.

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apparently the INDIAN actors on the show who are making a living are OK with it!

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That one guy is a retard.
Doesn't prove anything about our hygiene levels, thankyou very much.

And as a person who LIVES in India, I think I can be authority when I say - we date, we have sex (premarital or otherwise), we marry whomsoever we choose, we have live-ins, and we have open homosexual relationships as well (not to hurt anybody's sentiments) etc. Yes, there are certain restrictions, but they differ and diminish from region to region, or community to community, or from urban to rural. And even there it may differ depending on other factors.
It's really not that big a deal as you guys are somehow making out to be.

We have a traffic and road system which is quite good. Yes, it may not be as 'brilliant' as the USA or the UK, but it works for us.

For the record, and for the people who don't know any better, we have malls and brands from all over the world, we shop whenever we like, we have cars of every brand, we go to good schools and colleges and study all the subjects that you guys study, we dine in good places, we have 7-star hotels, we drink clean water. I really don't wanna go on. It's kinda silly. There's really no debate. All this is part of our routine daily life, as it is of yours.

Now quit it, and stop this dumb thread.



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Of course, anyone who knows anything about world history recognizes that India is a historical, advanced, intellectual civilization. However, the degree of conservatism varies in different parts of India, and among different castes (which still do exist.) Some people in India date, and some people--many by choice--prefer the traditional custom of matchmaking along with Hinduism and astrology. 6000+ years of culture can't be all wrong, or all backwards.

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