Why


I have watched this movie, I watch the MTV series and the question I have every time afterwards is what makes a person become attached to a "person" online that they have never met, never seen on webcam and end up in "love". What are these 2 people missing in life? Why would someone intentionally fool another person like these "catfish" do?? Why would an innocent person fall for someone they have never met? My personal feelings are that someone that "catfishes" another person must have something missing like maybe empathy. There has to be a mental problem on the "catfish" side of the equation. A normal person would not do this another person.

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Being lonely and online all the time in communities can cause it. I once made a friend on YouTube in like 2007 and we would just talk about movies all day after I got out of school. I didn't have many friends with similar interests so I liked coming home and checking to see if I had any new messages. I wasn't obsessed with it but I would get excited to talk about stuff I liked with someone. Eventually because we were really close friends online they revealed to me that they weren't the person they portrayed themself as (an 18 y/o girl with problems at home) and they were actually a guy around the same age as me who had mental issues (nothing extreme though) and I even met his sister on MySpace. After that we stopped talking because I didn't trust them as much anymore and I even questioned if the sister was real. After MySpace stopped being what it was I stopped using it and never heard from them again. I guess it was myself that got into that situation in the first place just because I thought I made a great friend online, I wasn't targeted or anything. Nothing bad happened though, but I haven't had any online only interactions or friendships as thorough as the one I had at that time since. It was quite an experience.

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