Amish cruel?


It seemed to me that the bishop delivered his "shunning" ultimatum because his pride and feelings were hurt. The punishment struck me as cruel and unChristian.

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A lot of things they do is cruel and unChristian (along with many other religious groups).
Jesus himself reached out to those who sinned, went into the darkest places, and when he emerged brought others with him into the light. People like this just don't get it.

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It's a little more complicated than that...the Amish, especially certain strict groups, really censor the Bible. There are a couple of documentaries that I found really interesting..."Trouble in Amish Paradise" and "Leaving Amish Paradise." They really explain the subject of censorship and how certain families are leaving to preach and join more Evangelical-style churches. There are definitely some funny things going on within the Amish communities. I'm just trying to understand it a little more. This movie certainly doesn't do the complexities of the Amish justice, but I'm sure that wasn't their aim in the first place.

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I totally agree. It seems to me, that to supposedly be so godly, they are extremely lacking in the tolerance and forgiveness department. But I suppose that it is "judgmental" on my part to say so. How can anyone treat their own family member this way? If my daughter came home pregnant, and I threw her out on the street, I can just hear all the hollering about how screw up and intolerant I am. But add religion to the mix, and you have the sound of crickets. Not only that, but you can have people defending this behavior and attacking the critic as judgmental, closed minded, and a host of other names.

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That's what the Amish do. If you don't "obey" them and view the older men as Gods, you're likely to be shunned.

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Spoilers ahead:
That is possible, but I think it is more likely that the bishop went by what her father implied-that Katie had been rebellious and her refusal to marry him was a part of this rebellion. Her father covered up the real reason for her rebellion which was the fact that she was not told she was adopted, nor was told the contents of the letter.

I think the reason the bishop shunned her so quickly is he relied only on what her father had said. He was supposed to give her a chance to tell her side of things and give her a chance to change before sentencing her to be shunned.

Shunning, when done for the right reason and the proper procedure for doing so is followed, is not cruel or unchristian. It is done to make the wrongdoer realize all they have lost because they refuse to give up their wrong course and it serves as a protection to those who are doing what is right. Her punishment was cruel and unchristian because they were wrongly shunning her.

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Of course, true.

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