In America, long formal ball gowns and white tie and tails is only proper for weddings occurring at or after 7 pm at night. And even then, the invitation should indicate "Formal Wear" or "Black Tie" (a little less formal than white tie but still requires tuxedoes and long gowns for women). Formalwear is very rare at weddings in America except among the top elite classes; most average Americans don't really own any truly formal wear. However, I don't think it's appropriate to show up in shorts, tank tops and flip-flops, even at a beach wedding. I guess it depends on how well you know the bride.
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