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I Cried Almost The Whole Way Through


As a mother of not one, but TWO sons with Down syndrome, this movie touched me so very deeply. It gave me hope that one day my husband and I might be able to dance at our sons' weddings. Our boys are 11 and 5, so they're still young and, with early intervention and various other therapeutic and learning opportunities, our goal is that they will one day become contributing members of our community. We have given up the thought of grandchildren since the vast majority of adult males with Down syndrome are sterile* (I believe that there have only been two documented cases in recorded history of men with Down syndrome fathering children). It is our hope and prayer that our sons are blessed enough to find their "Monicas", and go on to live happily married lives; fulfilled, content, and NOT ALONE.

Monica and David are an inspiration to the Down syndrome community and others with developmental disabilities. Yes their life together will be challenging, but they've already overcome many obstacles and are still chugging along; living together and making a life for themselves with the help of their families. Many children with developmental disabilities outlive their parents and the thought that Monica and David will still have each other when their parents have passed on, should bring comfort to their families.

[*Females with DS are as fertile as typically-developing females and are capable of carrying and delivering children. Depending on the father, a mother with DS has a 50% chance of having a baby with the same genetic condition.]

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I agree twentyone...Monica and David are an inspiration to not just those with Down Syndrome, but ALL of us. I learned some valuable lessons from watching their story. May God bless them in all they do, and may God bless you and your boys - hope you get to dance at their weddings someday. 



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Bless you and your family. I agree that they're an inspiration and shed a bright light. I got teary throughout some parts too.

This movie was a real inspiration, because I had an uncle with Down Syndrome. He did live in group homes but he was independent, he'd come over to our (family) house as we went to visit him. He was always around us. He had his favorite drink and take out. He loved Elvis. He lived in his own apartment at one time with a caretaker checking up on him. He had a job at a training center. He'd take the bus to places. They do and know a lot more than many give them credit for. I do think these days we've come a long way but in some areas I think there needs to be more improvement.

He passed away at 62 in 2010 but a long story of being in a group home again and in their care. He was also having health issues. Some didn't think he'd live that long either. Growing up I knew he was different, and having a learning disability myself, I much preferred his company to others. In fact, I still prefer the company of those with developmental disabilities. We'd always watch scary movies, he loved Jason and we tried playing Tic-Tac-Toe I remember. There are old photos of him and a family video back in the early 90s with him in it.

I derailed the post a little bit, but when you know someone (especially) family with Down Syndrome you can't help but share many things about them.

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