I'm sorry you were disappointed in the film. Based on the posts on this board, a lot of people were evidently disappointed. Certainly the trailer is misleading.
Here's my take:
The "set up," as you call it, made me think (and hope) that what was coming was a reconnection between Arnold and Kay, not just a sexual reconnection, but a revitalization of their marriage.
I don't think Arnold had a revelation or that what he did was out of the blue. He was a routine-ridden guy who was startled out of his routine when his wife made good on her announcement that she was going to Maine. They started to make progress as a couple because of the counseling there. Arnold went to a lot of trouble to get a table at the restaurant and book the nice hotel. So he had gotten his hopes up, but because he was so disappointed during the scene you mention, he was afraid to hope again. Just safer to go back to the way he'd been than to risk being disappointed like that again.
I think it was a combination of Dr. Feld's remark, "Your wife is very unhappy. Have you done everything you can?" etc., Kay's comment that she didn't know if she COULD go back to the way they were, and Arnold's own realization that, scared though he was, he wanted to try again, that caused him to go into Kay's bedroom at the end. There was a progression there; it wasn't out of the blue.
I don't think the film means to give insight as to why marriages go flat. It's the story of a couple whose marriage is flat and here's
what happened to them. It's a story, not a primer on intimacy.
The story is about Arnold and Kay. A number of Elizabeth Shue fans are unhappy about her brief appearance, but what could her character have done that would have contributed to the Arnold/Kay story?
Just my opinions, of course.
"Makeup is pointless!"
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