Scott needs to understand one thing if he's gonna stick with Kourtney

I sometimes get where she is coming from but most the time she is overboard it all stems from her not trusting him that is how her control issues started and I know that cause I have been in the exact same position as her and when I watch her on TV it sometimes scares me cause I was exactly the same as she is now, and I agree he must now love her heaps to deal with all of that crap and never walk out on her. It went from trust issues to trying to control his whole life and it sounds stupid but is very true.

i agree i use to bash scott alot but i actually feel bad for him for putting up with Kourtney. if i was him i would've walked out on the relationship.

I feel so bad for him. He's becoming a responsible father and changing into a better person YET Kourtney doesn't even want to sleep in the same bed with him.

kourtney's crazy.

when she said (something to the effect of) "i know i'm hard on scott, but i'm still traumatized by the past", i had to wonder why she keeps choosing to make babies with him let alone stay in this relationship. i mean he is obviously someone she can't even trust. and TRAUMATIZED? that seemed a bit dramatic. maybe 2 years ago when they were having troubles, but if you're still traumatized then you've clearly not moved on and you're still resentful. you shouldn't be with someone who you have so many negative feelings towards. she doesn't have to forget the past, but if she's determined to hold onto it then why bother being with him?

i also found it ridiculous that she felt like he shouldn't take time and energy making friends who are temporary. yes, he should definitely be spending plenty of time with her and the babies. if he was clubbing and binge drinking until 7 a.m. like before instead of being at home then she'd have a case. but if he wants to grab a bite with someone and hang out for a couple of hours once a week or whatever then what's the harm? she might benefit from that herself, actually.

she feels like because she ONLY wants to spend time with her children that he should feel the same way as a parent. she loves her kids a LOT which is great, and she's obviously dedicated to being a good mother. i definitely don't find fault with her disinterest in bulding new or fleeting friendships right now. but i don't think scott should be required to adopt her mindset of "i have a family so i don't need to intereact with any other humans".

if she was that concerned then why did she leave his ass behind in CA in the first place? she doesn't trust him. she doesn't even seem to like him lol. he clearly disgusts her, but she stays with him and keeps bulding their family with no intention of stopping. sometimes i think she just likes the convenience of his sperm.

I do agree and I do kind of feel bad for him right now... but I mean, he royally *beep* her up. She is so insecure because of him and for that she has not trust in him. For evrything she put up with, he's got a lot of trust to earn back... he may be doing it, but it'll take a long while. Men need to understand that. Women too.