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Nasty sexism and ageism debases Dr. Seuss


I have only seen the trailer for The Lorax during the Superbowl, but that contained a little piece of dialogue that was so contrary to Dr. Seuss's elegant style and humane philosophy that I am sure the entire movie will be foul. What was this dialogue? Some little squirt is about to sock another character and is told "You wouldn't hit a woman" (or words to that effect), to which the squirt replies, "You call THAT a woman?"

Well, squirt, a woman can be any age, any size, any shape, any color. We are still women when we are fat or flabby or old enough to be your grandmother. We are still women when we are fully clothed. We are still women when we are your 5th grade teacher.

I know that this is just an attempt at 5th-grade humor, but it was not written by a 5th grade boy. It was written by a grown male writer who thought that kids would find it funny, and approved by grown man editors who also thought that kids would find it funny. That's really a sad commentary on how they want boys to grow up, and it has nothing whatever to do with Dr. Seuss.

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Right on!

I'm so hurt by "jokes" like this. I'm a very tall woman, I sometimes go through heavy phases, and I can tell you that this kind of casually cruel remark not only hurts, it wears away one's confidence.

It tells me that a woman who is too big is not really a woman.

As tall as I am, I'm still a woman. Except to the Lorax, evidently women like me aren't really women. And apparently it's perfectly fine to say so out loud and expect other folks to laugh at this bit of humor.

I feel bad for every little girl who happens to be the tallest - perhaps the heaviest - in her class and sees this movie.

This may be her first inkling that she's not entitled to the same respect, admiration or even simple kindness that a smaller, 'prettier' girl will garner.

I realized when I was about 10 - the year that the Lorax was published - that the worst thing a woman could do in our society was take up too MUCH space. The worst thing a man could do was not take up ENOUGH space.

Sadly, things haven't changed a lot in the past 40 years.

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Yeah, gotta agree with your sentiments. Who was the idiot that approved that trailer? Or even the entire joke in the first place?

I was actually very interested in seeing this movie since I loved the book as a kid. And although the movie deviates quite a bit from the book, I would have still gone to see it. But with corny (and insulting) humor like that, I'm much less inclined to pay $10 to go see it.


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Don't you think you are way up on the sensitivity scale on this? It's a funny joke and is in no way directed right to you.

Come on ladies, lighten up!





This is very, very difficult. But sometimes children are bad people, too.

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I don't think it's funny. And who is it directed towards anyway? Fat women? Ugly women? Women who don't look "beautiful" by society's standards?

And it's not even a sensitivity issue for me, since I have no qualms about my own appearance - but if they want adults to actually enjoy sitting through a film with their children, they should try to aim for jokes that register a bit higher on the maturity scale.


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What if the line is directed towards someone with a terrible personality. Is it OK then?

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I knew some fat *beep* would be crying about this.

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You both are wrong. Ladies: Lighten up Hyper: Get a girlfriend

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I don't know, do you find it funny? Perhaps then it is.


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You should know that birds can't take a joke. Although they enjoy directing castration threats towards men, we on the other hand are not allowed to make jokes directed at them as we've had our share of fun for centuries. This is equality, for *beep* vagina people!



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I agree with you completely on this one automouse.

The question of her femininity is precisely directed not at her physical appearance but rather her overall MASCULINE demeanor and behavior. The aggressive and even violent nature of that woman is hardly characteristic of the female gender, hence the joke.

Please ladies, lighten up and take the joke with a grain of salt. No need to stir up controversy where there is none, especially when analyzing a children's movie filled with such beautiful messages overall.

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"the worst thing a woman could do in our society was take up too MUCH space. The worst thing a man could do was not take up ENOUGH space.
Sadly, things haven't changed a lot in the past 40 years"

Are you SERIOUS with this statement, I mean really??

I'm tired of women complaining over every little thing a MALE says that they might find offensive and they ignore everything else.

This day and age it's a FEMALE-PRIVILEGE society whereas everything is easier for females than it is for males. There are hundreds of examples to this yet women, of course, don't complain about this. For Example:

In movies/TV shows, etc women are allowed to hit men if they cheat on them, etc. and no one complains. There are loads of movies where the girl kicks the guy out of his own house and he leaves.

Society says MEN should always pay on dates to be a gentleman (with most women's argument is that if we pay than he'll expect us to always pay, oh kind of like what women are doing right?) Women like to say men should pay because it’s what being a man is. Yet you can’t tell a woman what a being a lady is.

Men’s paycheck, should you get a divorce, does not belong to him. If she doesn't work, men have to support her a$$. This is unconstitutional against the equality act (women don’t pay alimony in almost all cases)

The men’s children, should they get a divorce, do not belong to him. If mom drops them off at the babysitter's house, try to pick up your kids without mom's verbal consent to the sitter.

Your half of the fetus, should you get a woman pregnant, does not belong to you. If she wants to abort, it's not your call. Yet if she wants to keep it, you have no choice but to pay child support.

Turn on any news and you’ll see either all female anchors, or females and males but almost never all-males.

This is a little joke that the Lorax miss saw her as a guy, so stop complaining…there are other movies where it belittles men and makes fun of them, most movies the men are the but of the jokes, even commercials and no one is allowed to complain right? I hope a men’s movement happens to change things. The man are always fat and their wife’s are always the smarter ones in TV shows, etc and what does that tell little girls and boys?
In The Lorax the boy goes out of his way to find a tree for the girl he likes because he thinks that’s the only way to get her, I find that offensive (plus in the book the boy didn’t do this for a girl).
I’m not saying everything is fair for women but we always hear their argument and never the men’s side because society tells men they can’t complain. It even teaches boys that to be happy in life, you first have to make the girl happy (why, its ridiculous)

These are just some examples of the double standards. But to go with this argument over this little joke in the movie I'll give you one that happened on a TV show and no one complained because it was directed towards men:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nrvDhSB7GHk&feature=related

(it's the case where the wife cut off her husband’s penis off, and when talked about on this all-female show, they turned it into a joke even stating that it was good what she did, that every woman wants to do this....if an all-male show laughed about a man mutilating his wife's vagina, they would be fired)

Anyway, annie....the reason I wrote all this because you said nothing has changed in the last 40years for women and I find that a joke. Are you serious? We're living in a society which tells girls that nothing is expected of them yet they can expect things from men. That men have to cater to their needs and if they don't, then just dump them and take everything they got. On Valentine's Day every year I get offended when, on almost every channel, they tell men that they better do something nice for their girl or their girl should dump him, girls are even allowed to say "he better do something nice for me or else"...now imagine men saying that...
I could go on and on but I’m pretty sure you get my point and I’m sure you agree.

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I definitely agree with you. Not ALL women think and act like this, though, believe me.

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Not posting to the OP. She may have felt somethint.

BUT I completely agree with mrhollywoodp. That's what I think as well. Women get more privileges than men, and yet they are the ones who complain the most.

And even tiny things seem to trigger feminist groups. e.g. I was reading a post where some1 didn't like ppl telling boys "Don't cry like a girl" or something.

It's just that women seem to be wanting more and more, while men just sit back and comply (which is kind of our fault)

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Maybe along with being "rolife" as in "Horton:", the sexism, maybe be due to Dr.Suess's era, not defending it, midn you. As you say, Annie, years aog (40 to be exact) the Lorax was published and you were ten, even with feminism by that time (early 1970s), and things haven't changed much...

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entitled to the same respect, admiration or even simple kindness that a smaller, 'prettier' girl will garner


No one's "entitled" to admiration, the only thing someone you don't know is entitled to is humane respect.

Feminist in general don't understand what they fight for.

A woman will never be equal to a man, and shouldn't be.


After that you should have stopped typing.

Let me explain...


Men are stronger, and have responsibilities that women shouldn't want them to stop doing, such as being held accountable as a provider, manly, courageous, hard-working, courteous, gentlemen-like.


Now YOU'RE making assumption's based on personal beliefs about what a male SHOULD be and for that alone, YOUR WRONG!

Do women want to really be treated the same?


If anything, it would work out for humankind if women were treated the equally, AS IN HUMAN BEINGS!!!

What this should do is make you think how males treat each other, basically your saying males shouldn't treat each with respect, this way of thinking has caused many problems and gotten many killed for many years... this way of thinking has to stop.

Men are supposed to have leadership, but they are also supposed to by nicer, sweeter, more polite, kinder, softer, respectful, and caring towards women.


No one's supposed to have or be anything... again, this is your personal belief... and again, you should be respectful to everyone, unless they've earned your disrespect, why be rude or harsher towards someone who hasn't offended or affected your life?

Women deserve respect...not equal treatment. Because, I don't think they really want to be treated like a guy.


How about treating them like a person...

I mean, would any of you, as a for instance, be able to tell at a glance whether a TREE was female or not? (Trees have genders.)

Taken that way, the 'that's a woman' remark is not only inoffensive, it makes sense.

OTOH, I'm not pleased that a touching (and grim) story about the environment has somehow been turned into a teenaged love story...


I like finding the logical posts in thread like these, let's me know im not the only one alive with common sense...

I don't get people that complain about how they are over weight. If you are fat stop eating. Over 99% of the time a person is fat because they over eat. Only once in awhile it is actually genetic.


... and then there are idiots like this... you think people overeating is the main cause of obesity? wow go watch a documentary, it certainly isn't 99% and there are more reasons to add to the list than genetics, for one, it's people like you, those who don't think before they talk(type)

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This is my baby's favorite movie, so I've seen it a lot. I understand your consternation, because we don't all look like Taylor Swift. It's odd that of all the funny moments in this movie, they'd choose that for a trailer, especially separating it from what makes it work. The woman in question takes one step out of her fancy-shmancy RV, surveys an absolutely breathtaking landscape, then says, "What a dump!" In the movie, the line plays more like, "That's a human?" even though it does follow a threat to cause her physical harm, and the comment, "You wouldn't hit a woman, would you?" That's the thing about Onceler. His family is barely human. They're cruel to him, cruel to the animals, cruel to the environment, and then, after they talked Onceler into cutting down the trees again, and he eventually destroys them ALL, his mother tells him that he has let her down and turns to a brother saying, "Bret, you are now my favorite child." You certainly understand that they completely abandon them and he never sees them again. It isn't the fact that Aunt Griselda is a plus-sized woman that makes you question her humanity. It is that she's got no redeeming personality characteristics whatsoever.

Granny is also plus-sized She is portrayed as an incredible person and very loveable. For her there is the line, "How cool is your Grandma?" because she snowboards down a slope like she's an olympic athlete, then waddles back to Ted's bike.

Yes, taken completely out of context the line is very sexist and cruel. And I don't think that's a line that Dr. Seuss would ever have written -- well maybe when he was still very young. He wrote the Lorax because he wasn't proud of some things he had done as a youngster (including supporting Japanese concentration camps publicly) and he wanted to mark the rest of his life with positive messages. I'm also not sure he would have approved of O'Hare, the main bad guy. Like so many cartoon bad guys, he's very short. This height also gets made fun of -- "Crazy baby man", and is played on in the way that he travels, etc. Of course, the Lorax is also short -- too short to reach the door handle. Truth is we humans tend to haul out insults about appearance when someone gets us really angry. We may not naturally have a prejudice against someone short or who is not model-material, but we're always aware of what is likely to hurt the most, and we use that when we're hurling words. It isn't nice. It isn't pretty. But it is true to life.

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Very insightful post, thanks, Haroldbethwalsh!

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Wow I didn't find that offensive at all. Seriously some of you people need to relax a little.

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As I asked in the first place, where is Dr. Seuss in this piece of dialogue? I know his works quite well, and there is no place in them where someone is jeered at for her or his gender identity (with the possible exception of Horton when he is sitting on the egg).

The Lorax speaks for the trees. The trees are not interested in whether any character meets anybody's definition of male or female. I am sorry that the sad, thought-provoking fable of the Lorax had to be messed with to meet Hollywood's low, low standards of humor and intelligence. (How about the obligatory poop and fart jokes - did they just not make it into the trailer?)

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that particular joke is not a gender identity comment... it's a throwback to the matronly character symona boniface used to play on the 3 stooges. you can see her in "no census, no feeling."

now, is that actually a problem? it's just bizarre to me to see this discussion. should we not reference the old archetypes? i clearly saw that as a reference, not a comment on gender identity. these seuss movies have been unfailingly crass, so i don't know why this is worse than the fart jokes i'm sure it also has.

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I don't get people that complain about how they are over weight. If you are fat stop eating. Over 99% of the time a person is fat because they over eat. Only once in awhile it is actually genetic. I lost 135 pounds by diet and exercise. It is not hard to stay healthy if you have will power. So instead of wining about it, how about you put down that piece of cake and workout for an hour. People shouldn't say they do not have the time because I work 70 hours a week at two jobs and still have the time to stay in shape.

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"I lost 135 pounds by diet and exercise. It is not hard to stay healthy if you have will power."


Then why did you get so fat in the first place?

"I work 70 hours a week at two jobs and still have the time to stay in shape."


And to post your opinions on message boards.

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If you watch the trailer again (it's right here on IMDb), you'd find that the actual line the Lorax (the "little squirt," since you don't exactly seem familiar with the source material) says is, "That's a woman?" In other words, he was mistaking her for a man. No sexism there. Next time you get indignant about something, you might want to get your facts straight first.

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What's really sad is that Alps was the first person to bother correcting the original poster. The line is indeed, "That's a woman?!" and there's a big difference between that and "You call that a woman?!"

You might as well be complaining about Roz's oddly pendulous breasts in Monsters Inc, or the fact that a man actually voiced both her and Edna Mode from The Incredibles.

I am a plus-sized woman, one who was born with crazy broad shoulders no less. Even in the trailer I never once assumed this joke had anything to do with the size or look of the "woman" in question. She's an overly stern and very caustic looking character - that they would make a gender-confusion joke about her is not remotely about the fact that she's big or bulky. And there's an even bigger difference between the Lorax questioning whether she should be called a woman and him genuinely not realizing she is one...

Just as there's a big difference between sexism and finding humor in stereotypes and misapprehensions.



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That's not what he said.

He said, "that's a woman?"

As in, he thought it was a guy.
Sure, thats still offensive, to the fictional character, because basically he was saying that she was so ugly, he thought she was a guy.

Weight didn't have much to do with the statement.

It's very typical humor...a guy walks over to someone and tries to "hit" on them and they find out that the woman was actually a guy with long hair.

This wasn't in that bad of taste, you misheard what he said.



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That line is stupid but not in the way the OP thought it was.

Why is it not okay to hit a woman like you would hit a man? Feminists have to stop nagging about gender inequality on one front and then playing delicate and feminine when it suits them. Both genders suffer from inequality, I mean, when a wife beats her husband it is mostly laughed at, while the other way around would merit all sorts of lawsuits.

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thats very true and well said.

Feminist in general don't understand what they fight for.

A woman will never be equal to a man, and shouldn't be.

Let me explain...

Men are stronger, and have responsibilities that women shouldn't want them to stop doing, such as being held accountable as a provider, manly, courageous, hard-working, courteous, gentlemen-like.

Do women want to really be treated the same?

Men are supposed to have leadership, but they are also supposed to by nicer, sweeter, more polite, kinder, softer, respectful, and caring towards women.


DO women want men to stop respecting them?

Men treat men like men, but they shouldn't treat women like that.

Women deserve respect...not equal treatment. Because, I don't think they really want to be treated like a guy.

Its not about being equal...its about both being respected and treated properly.



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Guasco -
You are entitled to your beliefs about the differences between men and women, but please understand that they are only your beliefs, not necessarily truths. I am sorry that you believe that men should treat other men in an impolite, disrespectful, harsh, uncaring manner.

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Your ENTIRE comment is filled with ignorance and stupidity. I'm wondering if it's worth breaking down.

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"Men are stronger, and have responsibilities that women shouldn't want them to stop doing, such as being held accountable as a provider, manly, courageous, hard-working, courteous, gentlemen-like.

Do women want to really be treated the same?"

more women are going to college than men and for the first time, just last year, they earned more advanced degrees. it's kind of too late for that argument.

and frankly, lets think about what you really said for a moment:

"Women are weaker, and need to be taken care of like children.

Do women want to really be treated like capable adults?"

that's what it used to be like. an unmarried woman couldn't earn enough to survive, so she had to find a man to take care of her. and maybe he was nice, but if he wasn't, what choice did she have? there's a reason prostitution is the oldest profession. so, yeah, i really do want to be able to hold down a job and pay my own rent or own my own home, instead of hoping i can find a nice sugar daddy to take care of me. who the hell wants to be dependent?

and who the hell decides what is proper? it used to be proper to beat your wife. it used to be legal. let's not go back to that, eh?

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i agree with what u said but regarding the college issue:
more women are going and graduating from college not because men dont want to but for the simple reason that there's more schlorships and money geared toward females than males. Look online and research, people are saying its unfair how women are getting more than men in regards to health care, schooling, etc.

ANd regarding the past, some of the things you said are true but you make it seem like everything was perfect for men yet women had a miserable life. You think tha men wanted to pay for the women, take care of her , etc? These days nothing has changed for men and everything for women. Women work just as much as men yet society still tells men they have to pay on dates, have to buy her girfts constantly, etc. WHy? How is that equality?

In movies, tv, even on the news, when a case is reported of men hitting a woman is taken serious, yet if a woman hits a man, abuses him its a joke.
This day and age it's a FEMALE-PRIVILEGE society whereas everything is easier for females than it is for males. There are hundreds of examples to this yet women, of course, don't complain about this. For Example:

In movies/TV shows, etc women are allowed to hit men if they cheat on them, etc. and no one complains. There are loads of movies where the girl kicks the guy out of his own house and he leaves.

Society says MEN should always pay on dates to be a gentleman (with most women's argument is that if we pay than he'll expect us to always pay, oh kind of like what women are doing right?) Women like to say men should pay because it’s what being a man is. Yet you can’t tell a woman what a being a lady is.

Men’s paycheck, should you get a divorce, does not belong to him. If she doesn't work, men have to support her a$$. This is unconstitutional against the equality act (women don’t pay alimony in almost all cases)

The men’s children, should they get a divorce, do not belong to him. If mom drops them off at the babysitter's house, try to pick up your kids without mom's verbal consent to the sitter.

Your half of the fetus, should you get a woman pregnant, does not belong to you. If she wants to abort, it's not your call. Yet if she wants to keep it, you have no choice but to pay child support.

Turn on any news and you’ll see either all female anchors, or females and males but almost never all-males.

All I'm saying is that these days women have it easier than men and things need to change. Its like everythng is about her while the males are just an after thought. Even in schools there are a week out the year where its womens awareness days where the boys and girls are split up, the boys are taught how to trreat woman and the girls are taught how they should be treated. So growing up the girls learned that "hey this is how he has to treat me and I haven't be taught how to treat men but I've seen in movie the girls treat tehm however they want and it aint a problem just so long as HE treats ME right"

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I find all humor offensive. People should stop trying to be funny and let any and all types of enjoyment in life just die.

Get. An. Effing. Backbone.

Everybody gets made fun of. Get over yourself. Learn to laugh.

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So people who offend you are to be reported and yet you expect the people whom you offend to "ignore" you.

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Is "The Lorax" a funny book? Does it need to be a funny movie?

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i agree. Suck it up. If you get offended from a dr. seuss movie, you probably shouldnt watch movies anymore.

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No problems here. Also no reason to be quiet. I try to keep my discourse civil, and if I disagree with something, I have the right to say so. As a rational adult, I don't need to shut people off because they disagree with me.

I have the right to say that the coarseness (and, yes, sexism and ageism) of what passes for humor in many movies and TV shows is tiresome to me. That's "to me." Other people may feel otherwise.

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Holy *beep* you people are *beep* stupid.

Go back under your rock, you PC *beep*

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*like*

Very well put.

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Since the Lorax is not a human, and doesn't really resemble one, it's safe to assume he might not know what a human 'woman' looks like.

I mean, would any of you, as a for instance, be able to tell at a glance whether a TREE was female or not? (Trees have genders.)

Taken that way, the 'that's a woman' remark is not only inoffensive, it makes sense.

OTOH, I'm not pleased that a touching (and grim) story about the environment has somehow been turned into a teenaged love story...

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