hank is lame

I wish he actually had a voice in the show...its supposed to be about kendra and hank's life but he does nothing. He says the lamest things like dreaming about his own wedding. He lets kendra do whatever she wants and she has all the control. why the hell would anyone get married at the playboy mansion ( its known for wild crazy sex parties) and she still kissing on hef not on cheek but on lips. He's lame for not speaking up and allowing his woman to have all the control its supposed to be 50/50.