Seriously, can't these guys 'have some alone time' without cream!
shareFrom what I hear, circumcised guys can't jerk off comfortably without the use of hand cream. For uncut guys, it's no issue.
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It's easier with hand cream
"It's around 4 o'clock. We've been here since 12 o'clock. Five hours is like enough."
Dunno about "easier." Unless your goal is to take hours to finish, there IS such a thing as too much slickness.
Also, unless they had a really over-aggressive doctor, most circumcised guys -- in my vast experience :) -- manage just fine without lotion...
My Sharp-Dressed Man has no turtleneck, yet prefers it dry. Dunno why.
shareRub your hands together for 5 minutes...Did they get hot?
That's why. Friction.
I couldn't imagine trying to do it dry.
Marewidge! Marewidge is whhat bwings us togebbar...today!
Never been a problem for me. In my 15 year jerking off career I've only ever used a lubricant a handful of times (no pun intended). I am uncut though.
share"I am uncut though."
That's why. Unfortunately, the majority of us in the US have had our junk involuntarily mutilated based on questionable science that is largely outdated today. If I have kids I will not, not have them circumcised.
When I was a teenager I used to be able to get off without lube easily (probably because my hormones were a lot more uppity) but now that I'm in my 20's I find myself using it more often than not. It's annoying.
Do you guys think that if someone has jerked off "dry" all his life, that it can be difficult for him to...get pleasure from sex later on when it finally comes to it?
shareDont know y im gonna join this discussion. When I was a teen I used lotion, cream, hair conditioner, baby oil, and most of the time dry. after I got older and discovered lube I stopped using all the other things im 34 now and started when i was 11 and this whole time it just depends on what im in the mood for... I am cut also
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"Do you guys think that if someone has jerked off "dry" all his life, that it can be difficult for him to...get pleasure from sex later on when it finally comes to it?
Yep. I did it dry ever since I started at 14 or so. Every girl I've been in a relationship with, I've faked it with at one point. Probably faked it more than not. Sucks.
"Yep. I did it dry ever since I started at 14 or so. Every girl I've been in a relationship with, I've faked it with at one point. Probably faked it more than not. Sucks."
Ok thanks. But i dont know if it's because i wasnt in love with the girls i've done it with, but i could not maintain a full on erection, and it didnt feel pleasurable, therefore i could never bring myself to...peak. I'm just trying to figure out why this is happening to me. I used to think that i may have ED, but i'm able to get it up by hand (now using lube), but i'm starting to think that it was because of my many years of dry jerking. Hopefully, if i stop jerking dry and use lube, all my problems will go away. Is that what's it's like for you?
ok so I had a friend that was having the same issue (I have like 8 close close friends and we share everything there r 3 girls one is lesbian and 5 guys 2 r gay in our tight nit group) we share everything like we have no secrets so we was all talking about his issue and we came to the conclusion that his issue of it not feeling good enough was he just needed to try different stuff like positions and stuff its just like a grl what works for one wont be the same for the next so after a bit he found his "thing" and now hes able to have great sex. I hope u understand what im talking about
shareNo I am not gay, i do not find men attractive. I have a fetish for hot trannys but that doesnt mean i'm gay or like guys.
Thanks for your thoughts tho.
Stop jerking off for awhile. Excessive masturbation, while not unhealthy, conditions your penis for a tighter grip. It's going to become more difficult for you to reach orgasm during vaginal sex because pussy is looser, and wetter, than a lubed up hand. You need to gain some of that sensitivity back.
Don't worry dude, this is a common issue with guys who jerk off too much. And if you use porn most of the time you jerk off, that also can desensitize some guys as their minds begin to associate pretty radical, unrealistic sexual situations with arousal (i.e gang bangs, DP, over processed and fake looking women, trannies, etc).
Get off the porn, and get off the masturbation, and retrain your mind and penis toward the real thing. You'll be fine.
i always have dry and i like sex lol so no i dont think that
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