Duncan....WTF???


What is with this guy? I cannot believe he went off on the trainer like that. it isn't her fault that he apparently came there for "eye candy" and the trainer they hired (who is gay, I believe - I saw her training on another show and she was in a relationship with a woman) is a woman. I cannot believe how abusive he was to her. No one was lusting after her that we see - the guys were into Amber. What the hell is with this guy?????????????

What a hypocrite as he's saying that words are powerful, etc after Jennifer was so upset...hello, Duncan? Don't you think your words are hurtful, too? I can't stand this guy.

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i can't believe how he spoke to that one guy...the one he called an idiot. it was very kari ann of him to do that.

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I think that was the first guy to actually call him out on the way he speaks to others. I know he was abused and is an addict, but that isn't a free pass to be a jerk to everyone - especially a trainer that didn't wake up that morning set out to ruin your life. It really bothered me.

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Dredging...........the total bottom.

you have now officially lost your mind!

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I can't believe he was pissed b/c he didnt have a "trigger" in the house....WHY WOULD U WANT ONE???

But then again I thought he is "so into straight guys" well there's a house full of them.....Duncan lost me on this ep tonight!!

Jammin on the one, Ja ja ja Jammin on the one

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>>But then again I thought he is "so into straight guys" well there's a house full of them.....Duncan lost me on this ep tonight!! <<


I think he got pissed because he is an attention whore... once the girls left, he was working hard to get the attention he needs from those two guys... but when the trainer showed up they didn't give a poot about Duncan suddenly, so it set him off.

I did think the staff guy that was there was not doing a good job of 'counseling'
Duncan as he was whining about his issues, but certainly that is not free pass to treat the guy like that. I was hoping he would belt Duncan one.

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I totally agree...he seemed to be a pretty good guy with a lot of damage until this episode. It really bothered me how he spoke to Rebecca (the trainer) as well. It is one thing to get mad a Kari Ann, but Rebecca walked in very innocent and was screamed at without warning. It was totally uncalled for in my opinion.

Whether Rebecca triggered the others or not, she was hired to train them, and Duncan was a jerk from the get go.

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yeah, and i thought this whole time he was more the adult in this series.
he really showed his true colors. what an unbelievable douche. he is as childish as kendra and kari ann.

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The way I see it, at least he's talking. Doc Drew mentioned emotions would start to run high as withdrawal set in. That's happening. Unlike, James who is stoic (to this point), and Kari Ann, who is avoiding her issues, Duncan is facing his demons and giving words to his feelings. It's ugly, but part of the process.

Another interesting thing about Duncan - the psychiatrist accused him of revisiting the abuse to his inner child every time he acted out homosexually. This came as an epiphany to Duncan. It seems like the psychiatrist is not just trying to cure Duncan of sex addiction, but homosexuality itself. I don't think that's wrong. In some cases - not all - I do believe homosexuality is a psychological disorder. Duncan may be an example.

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well i think his homosexuality most likely came from the abuse he suffered, but i doubt that's something that can be 'cured.' he will undoubtedly always be attracted to men, but the goal of this therapy is to teach him how to have a healthy relationship. the girls in the house were also abused by men, and have been driven to unhealthy relationships because of this, that doesn't mean they can just become lesbians.

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I thought the shrink was enlightening Duncan on why he goes for certain guys and sexual experiences. Not trying to change his homosexuality! "Acting out" meant recreating the trauma itself. He can still have healthy relationships with guys.

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Acting out like this can be part of the rehab process. If he had not had this experience, he might not had the breakthrough he had afterwards. Anybody working with recovering addicts has to expect to deal with this sort of behavior.

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Duncan is majorly hot to me. Too bad he's gay haha

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Yeah!! Plus I loved when he bitched out that episode.

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