What about the woman who got left behind?
I saw this movie with my wife and 13 year-old son. We all enjoyed it. The story is complex enough that is does not seem too 'cookie cutter' and the story, direction and acting are all well-done. However, what's been sinking in for me after seeing the movie is that this is yet another story of a male mid-life crisis. Trapped in his dead-end job and a marriage he (and his wife) has not realized is over, the involvement with a new work project and a woman 15 to 20 years his junior reinvigorates his life. What about the wife he left behind?
Let's face it, how many movies do we see about the woman who got left behind? She's got to start over again and has no possibility, at least without intrusive and expensive fertility treatments, to have children. As an older parent, the whole scene where he talks about quitting his job and being a stay-at-home dad just rang false. We know Fred and Mary are not parents, but no hint at why. For couples who have tried and failed, it is a painful and emotional subject. Yet his flippant suggestion would imply they were a young and fertile couple with the option to have children of their own. In such a real-life situation, his comment would be a very hurtful attack.
I recall that storyline in "Secrets and Lies" where everyone thinks the childless woman is haughty and selfish, when in fact she is crushed and emotionally stunted by her inability of have a child of her own.
How about some movies that look at the fallout from men finding their way out of the mid-life crises/dead-end lives: the other half of the couple? What does the woman (soon to be ex-wife) experience in putting her life back together and finding a new direction and purpose, and maybe another relationship?