Rationalizing that his angry outburst was involuntary doesn't negate her human instinct to feel hurt by the specific things that he started yelling. His anger wasn't simply all-purpose rage, it was directed at her in that moment and he went straight to all of her known insecurities: being infertile, wanting to feel special, commitment issues, and don't forget that he'd confessed to abandoning a serious girlfriend in the past when things became too painful with her. So how could Susan not wonder, "well, there's a good chance he'll drop me too, any minute now." And then shortly thereafter she became unable to comprehend or hear him reaching out with remorse. It's really awful to me, the idea that everyone in the world would have their final sounds be those of horror or violence.
The other huge reason she'd be depressed and isolate was her inability to help. Guilt. Her job should be to save the day in situations like this, yet she was powerless because it sounded like there wasn't even a pathogen to study. It seemed like more of a spiritual phenomenon, in which case scientists would be no more equipped than anyone else. To witness such essential aspects of life being stolen from those you love could be just as, or possibly harder to accept than it happening to yourself. She ran off to her sister and tried to act like he was no one special to protect her heart from even more loss, I think, but in the end she instinctively needed and wanted him anyway.
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