Adultery?
For me, this is a film about adultery and moral choices we have to make in our life.
There is this guy who leads a routine life with his wife and kids. He also seems to have a sort of middle-age crisis (death of the father etc) Then he suddenly meets a handsome 18-year old creature and has tremendous desire for him.
He cheats his wife, but the community he lives in makes him to stop it. In the end of the film he symbolically washes his sins off.
I'm just wondering, what would change if the director replaced the 18-year old guy with an 18-year old girl? Would we feel the same sympathy towards the main character who "was dead before, and only now feels living"?
What's the moral difference between cheating your wife with a man or with a woman? In today's emancipated western world, where every other celebrity claims to be bisexual, I don't really see a big difference.