so i have a question


i've necer wanted to join a sorority i mean i feel like i don't need anybody pulling down my self-esteem just so they can feel better about themselves! My question is WHY ON EARTH DO WOMEN (ESPECIALL CAUCASION WOMEN) i MEAN IF THIS MOVIE IS ANYTHING CLOSE TO THE TRUTH WHY ARE OUR SELF ESTEEMS SO LOW THAT WE HAVE TO BACKSTAB, GIVE DIRTY LOOKS, AND JUST COMPLETELY PUT DOWN OTHER WOMEN. I MEAN HIGH SCHOOL IS BAD ENOUGH BUT WHEN YOU HAVE TO DEAL WITH IT IN COLLEGE ITS JUST SO MUCH WORSE!!! Don't you think?

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Well I was part of a sorority and it wasn't drama filled like this movie showed it to be. And it was nice to have sisterhood and good friends with you when you are in college

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I'm in a sorority also and this movie maybe held one tiny grain of truth and the rest was complete bull crap. Our administration would definitely have gotten involved, and it would never have come to a point of food poisoning and spreading false rumors about herpes. That was definitely Hollywood's interpretation of sorority life and to be honest, it was pretty silly. I, like the last poster, joined a sorority to make my huge campus into a smaller community and be part of a sisterhood.

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Um...wow, do you believe everything you see that Hollywood spits out? This is not what every Sorority is like, obviously you never experienced being in one... Do you also believe in Santa and the Easter Bunny? You may as well if this is what you really think they are like! It's Hollywood sweetie...

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"Sisterhood and good friends" can certainly be found in college without joining a sorority. BTW, does anyone remember the MTV show "Sorority Life"? That show was a train wreck... but so addicting! It was one of those guilty pleasure shows to watch... like Rock of Love.

Let not your heart be troubled...



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I know that one can find sisterhood and good friends outside a sorority. And I did make a lot of very good friends both in and out of my sorority.

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why do you say "especially white women"?

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Were you talking to the OP? I did not say anything about "white women" in either of my posts.

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Were you talking to the OP? I did not say anything about "white women" in either of my posts.


yes i think she was talking to me, darcybrandon!

I want to apologize for that comment cause it was really uncalled for and it so was not my intention to put down anybody. I know sororities happen in any race and stuff that happened in the movie dosen't happen in real life. But, girls are catty no matter what color or culture you are or come from! AGAIN i apologize for that comment!

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Yes, I was talking to the OP.
And thanks for the apology haha! I just wondered if I misunderstood the statement.

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Is it less offensive to say ALL girls are catty? Anyway... I never wanted to join a sorority either, but from what I've seen they aren't as bad as they're portrayed. Most of them are based around academics and community service. It isn't all about parties and girl fights, these girls work much harder than they're given credit for.

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Well why do you like Jesus Christ so much.. some people would never go to church because they think its a cult.. same thing.

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I LOVE JESUS BECAUSE HE DIED FOR MY SINS AND YOURS TOO!!! (CHRISTIANITY IS NOT A CULT)

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Okay okay its not a cult.. but if anyone asks you to drink the kool aide leave REALLY quickly!!! ha h ah hahaha .. oh and I hope youre a virgin if you arent married. b/c you are going to hell if not!!!

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OH PREPPYGIRL, SOMEBODY HAS CLEARLY TOLD YOU WRONG!!! YES IT IS A SIN TO FORNICATE (SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE) BUT JESUS CHRIST THE SON OF GOD DIED FOR OUR SINS! WE ARE NOW UNDER THE GRACE OF GOD BECAUSE OF JESUS! IF YOU'RE NOT A BELIEVER YOU WON'T UNDERSTAND! AND ACTUALLY NO I'M NOT A VIRGIN BUT I KNOW GOD LOVES ME BECAUSE THATS WHY HE SENT HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON JESUS! IT DOESN'T MATTER HOW I LIVED MY PAST ITS HOW I'M LIVING RIGHT NOW AND EVEN IF I FALL (WHICH I HAVE) JESUS WILL BE THERE TO LIFT ME UP! I HOPE THIS WAS A HELP TO YOU, PREPPYGIRL! STAY AWAY FROM PPL WHO TELLS YOU YOU'RE GOING TO HELL BECAUSE YOU DID THIS OR THAT RUN FROM THEM BECAUSE THEY ARE CONDEMNING YOU THEY'RE HINDERING YOU FROM A RELATIONSHIP WITH JESUS CHRIST!

I'M SORRY IF I WAS PREACHY LOL I JUST HATE WHEN PPL ARE MISINFORMED ABOUT CHRISTANITY


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Talking in call caps does not make people read what you wrote. You actually come off as a crazy person. Just a bit of advice.

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man that is deep.

but the reality of being a christian ( or muslim) is, of course, much sadder: Believing in a god is in fact very selfish: you basically want to live forever. If you cut away all the lovey dovey BS, there is just one thing that really matters to these people: the need for an eternal life in the heavens of their precious god. HALLELUJA!

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hey, how about talking about the movie instead of waxing philosophical and trying to offend people? regardless of what you think about religion, it's damn childish to go around baiting people on imdb. go find some other forum, and i'm including this to the person with the jesus signature -- there's a place for it.

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so you're basically telling everyone what to do? that's so sweet.

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the movies true in that people take this greek life crap wayyy too seriously. it consumes thier whole life and they barely make friends out of the greek system.

and it IS all based on looks. go to a party and the guys are just scanning the crowd like vultures for the "hot" girls and teling teh "ugly" girls that the house is full. i've been on both sides. its *beep* annoying.

even non-greek frats, like pre-med or business frats are taken WAY too seriously. they spend hours upon hours of stupid crap for NO reason.

and its true, you are PAYING for friendship.

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You can't pay for friendship you will not be friends with everyone in your chapter but hopefully you will have a group of friends you can rely on. You are actually paying for the cost of the chapter to run and have activities like having formals, philanthropy, and many other different activities, etc. and this is coming from someone not in a sorority so I would check my facts from now on and in the beginning it does take up a lot of time because you are bonding with your new sisters/brothers and learning all the ins and outs of the system. Not every sorority looks at members based on looks. Sorority and Fraternity members actually have to maintain a certain GPA to stay active in the chapters and on campus. Non-greek fraternities are taken seriously mainly because activities you do in them will go on your resume and up your chances of being accepted into Med school, business school etc. They also can help you be prepared for applying.

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STOP SCREAMING YOUR QUESTIONS!

X ~We are the people our parents warned us about

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