I know they are trying to convince us
that these women's encounters are awkward because they are old and sagging, but I don't buy it, especially in this culture.
Maybe the whiteness, but mostly their personalities. blech. They were not kinetic or sensual/sexual or personable. I think the main woman bought these men just because she could; there was no palatable drive there.
Or maybe these were awkward because some of these guys were gay.