Would you get jealous? (a question for the guys)

Well, my wife loving someone else would piss me off... man or woman. I'm talking about her cheating on me and cheating rarely involves love. Mostly it's about sexual release or catering one's ego.

I think that's true about Chloe and the son but that hairpin in Catherines hair makes me wonder if she really had some feelings for Chloe as well but just kept telling herself it was just her husband .

Oh and OP, I think you're not jealous cause it's still a fantasy right now in your mind (where all you see is two hot women together). In reality, I think things would be different - and I don't think affairs are usually just about sex, especially if its the woman having the affair.

I think it's a little more than trying to recapture the spark, but I think you're on the right train of thought... it's because Chloe is having sex with her husband (Or so she thinks.) So, IMO, she's trying to have sex with her husband by having sex with Chloe.

And the whole thing (movie) is just a great example of the complete communication break-down in her marriage. She doesn't talk to her husband or trust her husband... she talks to Chloe and believes the lies she is fed second hand about what her husband is doing. She can't find a way back to sexual intimacy with her husband... so she has sex with Chloe who is filling this role for her by being the only sexual link she has to her husband, only it's all a lie.

All these relationships are all people trying to get things they either don't know they need or can't get in an appropriate way. The husband is trying to hold onto his youth by avoiding realities that remind him of his age and surrounding himself with younger women. The wife is using Chloe to fulfill her needs not only for sex in general but for intimacy specifically for her husband. Chloe is using Catherine not only for a sexual relationship but to fill a mother role for her. She's sleeping with the son (IMO) to try to connect further with this family in the only way she knows how to connect with other people.

The son sleeps with her and is sleeping with (though he doesn't fully realize the situation), someone connected intimately with his mother. He's dealing with his own issues of how to relate to his mother and how to relate to other women. He DOES know Chloe is somehow tied in some dramatic way to his mother because of how his mother overreacts about her earlier in the film, and yet he still pursues a sexual liason with her.

The whole movie is very twisted, but fascinating about all these dynamics and relationships and need and pain all these characters have... much of it from a lack of communication and inability to fully explain/realize their needs.

My partner was quite clear as soon as we got together (over three years ago now) that despite some men not considering female-on-female action cheating, he did.

I had been with women before I met him, so that was the reason for the discussion. I'm as faithful as they come so I would have never even thought of doing that with a man or woman, but just thought I'd contribute to the thread.

That's because it's different in a guy's head. They are thinking about how hot two beautiful women would look together. When it came down to it and a man found out the woman he loves shared an intimate moment with another human being, it would bother him. Not everyone is the same, some would be able to put it past them, but I think it would bother anyone.