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I watched this film a couple of days ago, and it's still going round in my head.

I'm going to have to watch it again in order to get more out of it than my initial viewing.

Hoyte Van Hoytema's cinematography was brilliant, and Dan Berridge's original soundtrack was just haunting.

I have actually just bought the soundtrack from Amazon.

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I just watched this the other day, and I did not like it. The soundtrack was beautiful and the cinematography was very good. I thought the story was dreadful. First the aunt, then the neighbor's cousin were awful people. Both should be in jail. The old men asking for a kiss was weird.

I couldn't finish watching it. There was a song that played while she was opening the gate at the end of her drive that I thought I recognized (it was the first time she left on her own to go shopping). If you have the name of that track, I would like to hear it again.

Edit: I found the song, it is called "There is no one in this place" -- it's a beautiful piano piece.


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"I just watched this the other day, and I did not like it" - Realbullet


Okay.

"I thought the story was dreadful" - Realbullet


It was a "coming of age" story, they're not usually full of good things until the end, where the protagonist emerges from their experiences a better and wiser person. Seriously, if the protagonist just has good times and never has to deal with any unforeseen negative consequences, then it wouldn't be a "coming of age" story.

"First the aunt, then the neighbor's cousin were awful people. Both should be in jail" - Realbullet


Yes, the aunt was weak willed and easily manipulated by The Girl, but "awful"?, no. She was an example of what happens when a person doesn't fully mature, a foreshadowing of what The Girl wanted to avoid becoming. She didn't think too hard about the possible consequences of her actions, what I took from the film was that she had commitment issues and was just floating through life where the currents took her. Not an upright pillar of the community, certainly, but "awful"?

The neighbour's cousin was a bratty teen, that was probably going through her own "coming of age" story, and you want her thrown in jail? How's that police state coming along? 

"The old men asking for a kiss was weird" - Realbullet


I'm going to chalk that up to American sensibilities.

What it was, was the old men embarrassing the girls to make them think twice about trying to rip people off again. It was harmless, nobody got assaulted, nobody was emotionally scarred, it was just embarrassing. This scene also served the purpose of showing us just how much The Girl was prepared to put up with in order to still be considered "friends" with the older two ... something she comes to recognise as bullcrap as she gets closer to her enlightenment and learns to commit to real friendship.

"I found the song, it is called "There is no one in this place" -- it's a beautiful piano piece." - Realbullet


Great. 

I love the whole soundtrack and listen to it regularly.

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It was a "coming of age" story, they're not usually full of good things until the end, where the protagonist emerges from their experiences a better and wiser person. Seriously, if the protagonist just has good times and never has to deal with any unforeseen negative consequences, then it wouldn't be a "coming of age" story.
Yes, I'm well aware of what coming of age stories are about. I think the character was a little young for some of the experiences.

Yes, the aunt was weak willed and easily manipulated by The Girl, but "awful"?, no. She was an example of what happens when a person doesn't fully mature, a foreshadowing of what The Girl wanted to avoid becoming. She didn't think too hard about the possible consequences of her actions, what I took from the film was that she had commitment issues and was just floating through life where the currents took her. Not an upright pillar of the community, certainly, but "awful"?
Yes she abandoned a nine-year-old girl in whom she had responsible care. That's not just bad behavior, that's criminal behavior. (I should point out that this case happened in the United States. The parents traveled to Africa leaving their nine-year-old twins in care of an uncle who did not care for them. The Uncle was arrested and the children were placed in foster homes until the parents returned. I don't know what they outcome of the Uncle's case was, but he was charged.)

The neighbour's cousin was a bratty teen, that was probably going through her own "coming of age" story, and you want her thrown in jail? How's that police state coming along?
I had a tough time placing the age of the neighbor's cousin, but she sexually assaulted Ola and committed financial fraud. These aren't minor offenses.

I'm going to chalk that up to American sensibilities.
Could be, but the men seemed to be on to them from the beginning (which is part of why the scene with the old men seemed weird.) In other words, the scam seemed ridiculous to the absurd.



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"I think the character was a little young for some of the experiences." - Realbullet


Well, "I thought the story was dreadful" didn't convey that idea.

I know you know what a "coming of age" story is, but your comment was so vague and all encompassing I wasn't really sure you were aware that this was a "coming of age" story (especially seeing that you didn't watch all of it).

Which experiences, in particular, was The Girl too young for, in your opinion?

"Yes she abandoned a nine-year-old girl in whom she had responsible care." - Realbullet


Not exactly. She was manipulated by The Girl to leave, it's not like The Girl woke up one day to find herself alone. That would be abandonment.

"That's not just bad behavior, that's criminal behavior. (I should point out that this case happened in the United States. The parents traveled to Africa leaving their nine-year-old twins in care of an uncle who did not care for them. The Uncle was arrested and the children were placed in foster homes until the parents returned. I don't know what they outcome of the Uncle's case was, but he was charged.)" - Realbullet


This is not a story of crime and punishment, this is a story of what happens to The Girl over the course of a few weeks, in a Swedish Summer, set in the early 80s. American laws and ideas of propriety do not apply to this film.

"...she sexually assaulted Ola and committed financial fraud. These aren't minor offenses. " - Realbullet


Granted, what she did to Ola was way over the top, but to have her labelled as a sex offender for the rest of her life is an over reaction and completely unwarranted. She's just a kid, herself, well below the age of majority.

Financial fraud? Are you *beep* me? In the 80s that would earn you a clip round the ear and a sharp dressing down. Financial fraud, indeed. These girls aren't HSBC executives.

"Could be, but the men seemed to be on to them from the beginning (which is part of why the scene with the old men seemed weird.) In other words, the scam seemed ridiculous to the absurd." - Realbullet


No, there was a point of realisation, where the old men seemed to twig that something wasn't all above board. They didn't know from the offset that it was a scam. Would you have preferred it if the old men have held the girls captive and called the police to cart them off to juvie hall?

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Well, "I thought the story was dreadful" didn't convey that idea.
I guess that I did not explain why I thought the story was dreadful -- mostly because the story dragged and the troubles the girl faced seemed extreme. Most of the true coming of age stories have more focus to them -- for instance, the classic is Stand By Me where the focus is to find a body.

Not exactly. She was manipulated by The Girl to leave, it's not like The Girl woke up one day to find herself alone. That would be abandonment.
Yes, the girl did not wake up one day to find herself alone -- but she was still abandoned by the responsible care giver. I'm not sure how she was manipulated.

This is not a story of crime and punishment, this is a story of what happens to The Girl over the course of a few weeks, in a Swedish Summer, set in the early 80s. American laws and ideas of propriety do not apply to this film.
It was just a point of comparison -- America laws do not apply, but my perceptions sure affect me.

No, there was a point of realisation, where the old men seemed to twig that something wasn't all above board. They didn't know from the offset that it was a scam. Would you have preferred it if the old men have held the girls captive and called the police to cart them off to juvie hall?
It's hard to say how I expected them to react. I expected a little more anger and a demand of a refund.




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"I guess that I did not explain why I thought the story was dreadful -- mostly because the story dragged..." - Realbullet


I didn't find that it dragged. It was slow, yes, but it didn't drag for me. I suppose it is easy for a film to "drag" if the viewer isn't engaged with the story, luckily for me, it would appear that I was more engaged than you were.

"...and the troubles the girl faced seemed extreme. Most of the true coming of age stories have more focus to them -- for instance, the classic is Stand By Me where the focus is to find a body." - Realbullet


Not as extreme as some coming of age stories.

In "12 and Holding" ... the protagonist's twin brother is burned alive in a bullying/revenge attack. His coming of age story is to get fatal revenge on his brother's killers.

In "Hick" ... a teenage Luli (14/15ish) takes up with a violent and extremely possessive young man who later kills a man that is trying to rape her in a bathroom. She narrowly avoids becoming an underage sex worker (if I read that part of the film correctly), and she ends up killing the possessive young man after he kidnaps her and holds her prisoner (I'm not sure if he raped her, if he did we didn't see it, it might have been implied in the dialogue, can't quite remember).

In "Lilya4Ever" ... teen Lilya is left to fend by herself as her mother leaves for a better life and she is eventually tricked into leaving Russia to work in Sweden, but when she gets there she finds out she is to be a sex worker.

In comparison, The Girl has it easy.

Stand By Me is a Stephen King novel adaptation, so you're already working from high quality source material.

"Yes, the girl did not wake up one day to find herself alone -- but she was still abandoned by the responsible care giver. I'm not sure how she was manipulated." - Realbullet


The Girl wrote to her aunt's last boyfriend and got him to come for her aunt, she then convinced her aunt that she can look after herself. She used her aunt's weak character as a tool to get rid of her. I'm sure The girl thought she could do better herself, after seeing her aunt failing at being a good carer. Initially, The Girl seemed to be coping quite well, but then the steep learning curve kicked in.

"It was just a point of comparison..." - Realbullet


I'm not sure why you felt the need to make that comparison though, seeing that you've just said that it is irrelevant. I get the impression you're watching this film through an American lens, and trying to make sense of it from an American perspective, which is fine, but it's never going to work with a film like this. It's just too far removed from American culture, it is important to remember that most of Europe is far more liberal that today's America. You might get more out of it if you stop trying to analyse it as you watch it, and just let is wash over you first.

"It's hard to say how I expected them to react. I expected a little more anger and a demand of a refund." - Realbullet


I'm fairly sure they would have had a refund. As for the anger ... this is rural Sweden, they do things differently.

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In those comparison coming of age stories, notice the ages of the protagonists. That's what I meant about the character being young for some of the experiences. Twelve to Fourteen are pretty standard ages for coming of age stories. Nine and a half seems young to me for a coming of age story.

The only one of those stories that I'm familiar with is Hick (which I've read, but I didn't see the movie.) The story itself was not that believable, but the prose was very good. I suspect it helped the movie that the extremely possessive man was played by a future Oscar winner.

Yes, the girl has it pretty easy compared to some of these stories -- but those other stories sound like they have a little more focus (i.e. a series of events which escalate into more and more problems). That's as opposed to a series of random events which she learns from. In many ways, life is like that -- but that doesn't make them interesting stories. In Hick, Lulu heads off on her own to find Vegas. She learns about life from the obstacles that she experiences.

I'm not sure why you felt the need to make that comparison though, seeing that you've just said that it is irrelevant. I get the impression you're watching this film through an American lens, and trying to make sense of it from an American perspective, which is fine, but it's never going to work with a film like this.
The point of comparison was to show that I understand these things can happen, but the results should be completely different. I can't imagine that a drunken neighbor would allow himself to be blackmailed by a nine year-old girl. I'm pretty sure an anonymous phone call to child services would have fixed that problem.

The Girl wrote to her aunt's last boyfriend and got him to come for her aunt, she then convinced her aunt that she can look after herself. She used her aunt's weak character as a tool to get rid of her. I'm sure The girl thought she could do better herself, after seeing her aunt failing at being a good carer. Initially, The Girl seemed to be coping quite well, but then the steep learning curve kicked in.
Somehow, I missed that in the story. I remember her writing the letter, but I thought it was to someone she liked. Initially, I thought it was the neighbor boy, but the names did not match.




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"Nine and a half seems young to me for a coming of age story." - Realbullet


Fair enough, but The Girl didn't have to contend with murdered/dying siblings/friends, rape, homelessness (à la other coming of age stories). She had to deal with bitchy friends, embarrassment about liking a boy (Ola), feeding herself properly, getting rid of an aunt that wasn't really up to looking after her. I think the innocent and low level challenges helped make this film charming, the story wasn't driven by peril or danger and that made it all the more watchable, for me.

"Yes, the girl has it pretty easy compared to some of these stories -- but those other stories sound like they have a little more focus (i.e. a series of events which escalate into more and more problems). That's as opposed to a series of random events which she learns from." - Realbullet


I totally agree, Flickan isn't the most focussed story in the world, but I don't see that as necessarily a bad thing. Too much adherence to a rigid structure can be stifling, and lead to predictable films.

"I can't imagine that a drunken neighbor would allow himself to be blackmailed by a nine year-old girl. I'm pretty sure an anonymous phone call to child services would have fixed that problem." - Realbullet


But Gunnar was a friend of the family, not just a neighbour. He seemed to have an individual friendship with The Girl (not in a creepy way) where he taught her that dance and song about a sailor, and insisted on her performing it when they met (the sort of thing uncles do to much younger nephews and nieces). Add to that that he was under the thumb of his wife, god knows what she would have done if she found out he had put the car in a ditch because he'd been drinking. The Girl used his weaknesses against him (she was good at that). I really have a hard time believing that Gunnar would call Social Services and report The Girl, anonymously or not.

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I totally agree, Flickan isn't the most focused story in the world, but I don't see that as necessarily a bad thing. Too much adherence to a rigid structure can be stifling, and lead to predictable films.
This has been done, but it is extremely difficult. The classic version of this version of a coming of age story is Diner (even though the guys in that story were much older than the girl in Flickan.) Many people were critical of Diner because it had a very weak focus (mostly Steve Guttenberg doing everything he could to keep from getting married.) The difference is that Diner had a lot of strong, natural conflict built into the characters. When the protagonist is just a watcher, it becomes very difficult to maintain the tension.

I liked the protagonist of the story, but I don't think she matched up well to the other characters. A bratty teenager is going to win that battle every time.

But Gunnar was a friend of the family, not just a neighbour. He seemed to have an individual friendship with The Girl (not in a creepy way) where he taught her that dance and song about a sailor, and insisted on her performing it when they met (the sort of thing uncles do to much younger nephews and nieces).
But, I honestly think this supports my view that he would not accept her blackmail. A friend of the family will typically swallow their pride and do something about it -- even if it reflects poorly on them.


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"The difference is that Diner had a lot of strong, natural conflict built into the characters. When the protagonist is just a watcher, it becomes very difficult to maintain the tension." - Realbullet


I can't help but feel you were expecting a different film to the one you got. Flickan doesn't not have "strong, natural conflict built into the characters", or huge amounts of "tension", and nor does it need to. What it achieves it does so through a gentle process of awakening, not a trial by ordeal. Not every film has to have tension in order to work.

"But, I honestly think this supports my view that he would not accept her blackmail. A friend of the family will typically swallow their pride and do something about it -- even if it reflects poorly on them." - Realbullet


Yes, he was a friend of the family, but my point was that he is not just a friend of the family, he also has a separate friendship with the girl. Plus he has a weak character, shown in his relationship with his domineering wife. His weak character is more of an influence on his thought processes than doing the right thing.

He initially intended to do something about The Girl's predicament, he was going to alert the authorities. This was when he would appear as the hero, saving a child from an irresponsible adult (her aunt, not his neighbours, he might not have wanted to get his friends into trouble but he didn't know The Girl's aunt). So far, he is fulfilling your expectations, but that all changes when his car ends up in a ditch. He now has to consider the fallout that will land on him. He won't be a hero, he'll be seen as an idiot who can't handle his liquor. He'll never hear the end of it, his wife had already criticised him for getting his clothes wet while washing the car "I washed the car, like you told me to", she's the boss, he does as he's told, and still gets criticised.

A weak character chooses the path of least resistance, keeping quiet about The Girl was easier for him than raising the alarm.

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I can't help but feel you were expecting a different film to the one you got. Flickan doesn't not have "strong, natural conflict built into the characters", or huge amounts of "tension", and nor does it need to. What it achieves it does so through a gentle process of awakening, not a trial by ordeal. Not every film has to have tension in order to work.
I'm sorry, but that is not true. All stories need tension and conflict to work. This is simply one of the few fundamental requirements of story telling. You can find this in any basic textbook. Most will tell you that stories are conflict as though they are interchangeable terms. You can find this all over. For instance, here is some requirements from the very first random site that I opened on the question of story telling:http://www.natashakern.com/fiction_checklist.htm

SITUATION (PLOT/ACTION) CONFLICTS

1. Lacks central conflict, simply a string of episodes.
2. Conflict not believable or seems contrived.
3. Too many subplots or not enough.
4. Lacks dramatic tension. (Fails to create sensation of tension) This is the most important and most serious consideration.


He initially intended to do something about The Girl's predicament, he was going to alert the authorities. This was when he would appear as the hero, saving a child from an irresponsible adult (her aunt, not his neighbours, he might not have wanted to get his friends into trouble but he didn't know The Girl's aunt). So far, he is fulfilling your expectations, but that all changes when his car ends up in a ditch. He now has to consider the fallout that will land on him. He won't be a hero, he'll be seen as an idiot who can't handle his liquor. He'll never hear the end of it, his wife had already criticised him for getting his clothes wet while washing the car "I washed the car, like you told me to", she's the boss, he does as he's told, and still gets criticised.

A weak character chooses the path of least resistance, keeping quiet about The Girl was easier for him than raising the alarm.
All of that I understand (and this is about where I turned off the movie.) I just didn't buy it. That's all fine, well and good that he is a weak character -- but what will a weak character do as soon as his wife asks him about the girl. If he's truly a weak character, then he would immediately confess the crime. But, if he cares even a little about the girl, then he would surreptitiously try to get her some help.

That's why I didn't like the character. He was there to complete a plot check off point -- not as a realistic character, but because the film needed her to have no adult supervision for the summer.



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"I'm sorry, but that is not true. All stories need tension and conflict to work" - Realbullet


It is unfortunate that you chose to quote that particular website as they were preaching the "Requirements for Writing a Salable Novel". I will happily concede that if you want to make a film, or write a novel, that is going to make your first $million you are going to have to have an unhealthy dose of tension and conflict. That goes without saying.

I admit, I misspoke, I should have said that a film doesn't have to have lots of tension, and doesn't need to be driven by that tension. Mea culpa.

A film that succeeds with very little tension and minor conflict, other than Flickan, is "2001:A Space Odyssey". Another is "The garden of Words" (there is only one short scene that comes anywhere near anything resembling conflict). "5cm a Second" also works with no conflict and almost no tension. "The Man From Earth", absolutely zero tension, a tiny dose of conflict.

"...but what will a weak character do as soon as his wife asks him about the girl. If he's truly a weak character, then he would immediately confess the crime." - Realbullet


He's more likely to try to avoid his wife's disdain, by claiming that he spoke to the aunt and put her straight. Weak characters will also have some kind of pride that they want to hold on to.

"But, if he cares even a little about the girl, then he would surreptitiously try to get her some help." - Realbullet


You don't know that he didn't, you stopped watching there. Also, you can't argue in one instance that he is so spineless he can't even lie to his wife (to support your view of him), and in the next that he could go behind his wife's back in a way that would be seen as some kind of disloyalty.

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AS I wrote -- that was the first site that I pulled up. Any screenwriting workshop will tell you the same thing. Plot = Conflict. It's such a basic guideline that some books/workshops start out with it as foregone conclusion.

Conflict and tension don't necessarily mean fighting. Usually it's conflicting objectives or goals. It works best when the goals are clear and realistic. For instance, in Flickan it is not very clear why the girl wants to be without supervision. My nine year-old son always needs to know who is in charge if we go out.

2001: Space Odyssey has tension & conflict. The basic story is a computer with two competing objectives that it can't meet. Space travel is fraught with tension. A better example would be "Boyhood" -- it had tension, but most of it went unfulfilled. It was so boring that it made my eyes bleed.

You don't know that he didn't, you stopped watching there. Also, you can't argue in one instance that he is so spineless he can't even lie to his wife (to support your view of him), and in the next that he could go behind his wife's back in a way that would be seen as some kind of disloyalty.
Yes, I know I stopped watching, but I also read the dust case where it said that she convinced the neighbors not to check on her. So, it's not like I stopped watching in the blind. I find that spineless people avoid conflict -- which is not the same thing as not caring. In other words, he would have done something to ensure her safety while avoiding conflict with his wife and the appearance of disloyalty.


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"Conflict and tension don't necessarily mean fighting." - Realbullet


I know.

"For instance, in Flickan it is not very clear why the girl wants to be without supervision. My nine year-old son always needs to know who is in charge if we go out." - Realbullet


The Girl had no choice about being without her parents, she didn't choose to be without them. It is clear why The Girl doesn't want her aunt "looking after her". It's because the aunt got bored with playing happy families with her niece and decided to have fun instead, something The Girl recognised as a destructive influence. As for her neighbours, they represented a stifling of her new found freedom and independence.

"2001: Space Odyssey has tension & conflict. The basic story is a computer with two competing objectives that it can't meet" - Realbullet


Yes, I said that it has "very little tension and minor conflict", I did not claim that it had no tension or conflict. But the level of said tension and conflict are far below what we see in Flickan, and yet "2001:A Space Odyssey" is a classic.

"A better example would be "Boyhood" " - Realbullet


I haven't seen it, so I can't comment on it.

"It was so boring that it made my eyes bleed" - Realbullet


Lol, people often say similar things about "2001:A Space Odyssey".

"it's not like I stopped watching in the blind" - Realbullet


That's an unusual expression, at least for me it is. I can work out what it means from the context, but that's new to me. Interesting, is it common in America?

"I find that spineless people avoid conflict -- which is not the same thing as not caring. In other words, he would have done something to ensure her safety while avoiding conflict with his wife and the appearance of disloyalty." - Realbullet


Except that is not what you initially said he would do if he was to be a believable character, you said that he would have confessed all to his wife if he was a weak character. Having confessed all he couldn't then go on to surreptitiously help The Girl.

But as it is, The Girl didn't ban him from coming back, she just refused to go and live with them as he at first insisted would be the case. There is nothing to suggest he didn't keep an eye on her, regardless of the dust case synopses. It is left ambiguous because the film is not really about her being left unsupervised, it's more about her having enough freedom to "find herself" (I hate that expression but I can't be arsed to think of a better one at this time of day).

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The Girl had no choice about being without her parents, she didn't choose to be without them. It is clear why The Girl doesn't want her aunt "looking after her". It's because the aunt got bored with playing happy families with her niece and decided to have fun instead, something The Girl recognised as a destructive influence. As for her neighbours, they represented a stifling of her new found freedom and independence.
Intellectually, I can understand this, but emotionally, I can't. By the time that her neighbor is looking in on her, it seems that she is specifically trying to be alone. In other words, by then she seems to be rejecting her independence and searching for relief.


That's an unusual expression, at least for me it is. I can work out what it means from the context, but that's new to me. Interesting, is it common in America?
I'm not sure if it is that common. It has to do with taking your next step in life -- you either take it blindly, without forethought, or you give it thought and anticipate the next step.

Except that is not what you initially said he would do if he was to be a believable character, you said that he would have confessed all to his wife if he was a weak character. Having confessed all he couldn't then go on to surreptitiously help The Girl.
I really meant for that to be one option of what he could do -- not that it was the only possibility. In other words, he could have confessed all to his wife when she demanded it (breaking down in sobs) or avoided conflict altogether and reported it to the authorities. Another possibility is to whisper to the tractor-driver asking him to check up on her. These are all ways to avoid conflict.


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" By the time that her neighbor is looking in on her, it seems that she is specifically trying to be alone." - Realbullet


At that point I think she is trying to be alone, largely due to the adults' failures in; caring for her (her aunt), and treating her as an individual and not just a problem to be dealt with (her neighbours). I think this is an important step in her maturing to a point where she sees herself as a person in her own right.

"In other words, by then she seems to be rejecting her independence and searching for relief." - Realbullet


I'm not sure exactly what you mean here.

Are you suggesting that she is looking for relief in the form of friendship with Ola, relief from being independant and alone, or that she is looking for help, relief from being independant and failing, making her dependant on others?

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Are you suggesting that she is looking for relief in the form of friendship with Ola, relief from being independant and alone, or that she is looking for help, relief from being independant and failing, making her dependant on others?
I think that she is becoming used to the idea that she is failing on her own.

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"I think that she is becoming used to the idea that she is failing on her own." - Realbullet


I didn't see that at all. Lonely, yes. Failing, no.

Sure, she's not living like an adult would. But I feel that her nine year old mind considers that she's holding her own. After the Gunnar in a ditch scene, Ola comes round to see her and they re-start their nice friendship, she certainly doesn't look like someone who knows she's failing, she's still not asking for help.

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I don't want to get between you and Realbullet's complete misunderstanding of the film, but I agree with you completely. Especially when you said:

"it's still going round in my head"

Same with me. And that's the sign of a good film, in my opinion. One that sticks with you for a while, and one that makes you want to see it again. I've watched the film 3 times, and get a bit more out of it each time. It still resonates with me.

Some people just don't get it, and you can't convince them otherwise.

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