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What about the Asian, Hispanic and mixed kids?


Haven't seen the movie, but did they address this? What if you are half Black and White? If you are 1/4 or 1/8 Black, do you still have to go to the Black prom? Nonsense. At first I thought it was a cultural thing, like one prom would play country music and the other would play r&b and hip-hop. That way White kids who liked hip-hop can still go to the other prom and vice versa, but to make it racial is just gross.

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They didn't address that. However, it was a small southern town of about 2100 people. Just 415 kids in the school, and the graduating class looked to be no more than maybe 60-70 kids. I suppose had it been a bigger city they would have had to address all the different races. The school's students are 70% black and 30% white.

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It is ridiculous that this is even an issue but that is Mississippi. And to address the mixed kids point you made, I wouldn't think they are many in Mississippi, hmm. I don't know about Asian or Hispanic kids, though.

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I guess the mid-west is a lot different from the south because I grew up in a mid-west city and have spent lots of time in Texas and there are mixed kids and couples everywhere. Just recently I went to a wedding in a small town in Texas at a country club, the bride was white and the groom was black. I guess that will be as far south I will travel.

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I would guess that anyone who isn't white has to go to the black prom. As I remember, blacks were not allowed to go to the white prom, but whites were allowed to go to the black prom. Which is because the purpose of separate proms is not to keep blacks and whites separate but to keep blacks away from whites. Separate proms exists solely for the benefit of white students (and parents).

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They never mentioned this, but segregation was so strong in this town that the one interracial couple going to the prom was the only one, or I think they stated the few, in this town. As for the Asians or Hispanics I’m pretty certain that if there were any they would have gone to the white prom. I would assume this because my dad is from Mexico and clearly looks like it. He was stationed in Alabama in the late 60s and he would usually travel throughout the south. He tells me that the he was always told to drink from the white water fountains. All of the south’s bigotry is for the most part directed towards blacks. He even told me stories on how many people would embrace his Mexican culture, and he would have conversations with random southerners about Pancho Villa and such.
As with what most people have stated in the other posts racism nowadays is usually centered in small secluded towns, and it exists everywhere not just the south. Case in point I saw a KKK documentary and they were all living in backwoods shanty towns, and when they had a gathering in Birmingham everyone even white people were telling them to leave. I’m Mexican-American but most people don’t believe me because of my white skin and blue eyes, but I have traveled throughout the south and have never experienced or seen racism there. Honestly I have witnessed anti-Semitism in Mexico, seen skinheads in California, Mexican hatred in small town New Mexico, and confederate sympathizers in Europe. In 2007 California was the state with the most hate crimes at over 1,000 when southern states had 1 or 2.
In my opinion I think also many times when it comes to negative views on racism half is usually myth. Living in Texas for years you would hear horror stories about the racism in the panhandle. When I actually visited the people there were the nicest I have ever been around, and almost every couple I saw was an interracial couple.

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I'm from southern Mississippi and we had black, white, Asian, Hispanic, everybody. There were never interracial couples, and if there were, they kept quiet about it. My parents were going to enroll me in a high school that was 45 minutes away from my house so I could be in an all white school. I didn't let them, I thought it was ridiculous.

I've never seen anything as extreme as Charleston, but the closer to the Coast you get the more diverse it is and the racism is still there, but it's not as obvious.I think mainly because the Coast is somewhat of a tourist destination, with all the casinos, people just have to get used to different kinds of people being around all the time.

I am so happy to be out of there, I moved from there to Memphis, then from Memphis to Kansas City. Both are just completely different from anywhere I've lived in MS.

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Actually headlikeahole3, being from South, I would say that the majority of Hispanics and Asians would probably go the the Black prom. A few would be at the white prom, but most of them would not.

Racism isn't necessarily someone calling someone else the n-word or somebody screaming about how they hate another races. It's usually more subtle. Like in "Prom Night", the blacks felt like they had no power, like they could not win. Or for instance like nobody knew why they didn't date outside their race. Or how people talked about how they were stopped by the police for basically no reason, and simply accepted it.

Living in an area and visiting an area are two different things. And besides, you said yourself that you had "white skin and blue eyes". That makes it less likely that you would've noticed racism, especially as a visitor.

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From another post:

When I was little, my mom told me about the segregated school systems, and I had asked her about the Asians. Like what school did they went to, the black or the white one. And she told me that anyone that wasn't white went to the Black school. So, I guess the Asians went to school with them, but this was a very small town. It doesn't have much today, so it didn't have much back then. I assume there weren't any Asians families here, and if there were, I don't think they would of stayed long. Especially when they could go to a bigger city and have better opportunities for jobs and whatnot. But I don't know if that applies to the proms or anything.

I’m also from a small town in Southern Mississippi, right above the border to Louisiana. In the Deep South, basically. The main prom at the school was for everybody. This was the prom the school sponsored, and raised money for, and whatnot. But there is a separate prom. This one is done on it’s own. If you will. The school seemingly doesn’t having anything to do with this prom, people have it on their own, on their own terms, and they raised the money for it by themselves.

I do notice that, some people tend to hang out more with other people of the same race or ethnicity. I think everyone does that. I guess cause their race, or where they live, or their religion allows them to relate more with one another. Stuff like that.

Um, I’ve never really had to go through anything racist. Not that I can recall. But I have heard about racism in my town. During Hurricane Katrina. We were affected by it. We hand no power, limited resources, and were basically trying to get everything back together after the incident. Well, there was this gas station down town. And they wouldn’t sell gas to the African Americans. I wasn’t there, my mom told me about this, so I don’t know how they played it off or got away with it. There’s definitely a division between the African and the European Americans here. I’ve heard stories at how European American families would just up and move if they suddenly got an African American neighbor. In the media, & in school. It’s always ask was this a white person or a black person. Like that’s one of the first questions you ask. With the older people. Like my mom. She went to high school and all back when everything was still segregated. There was the white school in the middle of town, and there was the black school at the edge of town. There was a very big gap between the two locations. There still is, but instead of the white and the black school, it’s the elementary and the high school. My mom said when she was a little girl walking from school, some white guys drove by and threw eggs at her.
At the schools today, basically we all get along. I mean some of these people I have known since kindergarten and others, even preschool. Though you can see, that the European Americans have more European American friends. They relate more with the European American teachers, and the European American teachers seem to relate more to them. You would more often see a European American student hanging, and joking around and just talking with European American teachers then you would with the African American teachers. Some of the African American teachers actually are a lot more strict and even mock their African American students more than their European American students. It’s common knowledge that the European American students get away with a lot more than the African American students. The African American students just have more judgment on them, I think. I know, in the community college, they won’t let African Americans be roommates with the European Americans. And my sister, she’s in college, and she hated her African American roommates. She said they were loud, messy, and just a big annoyance, and plus she did not have the best dorm room either. She so wanted to have a dorm room down stairs. They were the better ones, but they kind of gave the European Americans those rooms. And my sister wanted a European American roommate, cause she figured they might be much better than her African American roommates. But the school won’t allow it.

In my school, African Americans were definitely the majority. I’m multi-racial, like many African Americans today. I’m of Native American, European, and African decent. My family ranges from dark skin to light skin, from black to red to slightly dirty blonde hair.
At school, I have seen African Americans in all shapes and colors. Most of my teachers were African American. I can recall even sometimes being in a class with nothing, but African American students with African American teachers. There is no doubt that the African Americans outnumbered the European Americans and especially the Asian Americans. There was not even a handful of Asian Americans at the school. I don’t think there was even a handful in the whole town. You never saw an Indian, or Southwest Asian or Muslim person. I remember that it was not until High school that I actually shared a class with an Asian person. This one guy, he was Vietnamese. He was a nice guy. And he hung out with both the European and the African Americans. They were his friends, they sat together, they joked together in the classrooms, shared music, talked about girls, teachers, and whatnot. But, he moved. Then there was the Filipino girl. Everybody liked her. She was new, she was exotic looking, many people thought she was Mexican or Hispanic cause she had the name, the accent, the skin tone, etc. There were boys from every race that wanted her. She was spunky, outgoing, and smart. And the first thing I heard about her was that she was going to be popular. On the first day she arrived too. She got along with mostly everybody, but I usually saw her hanging out with the African American girls. Like I said, no one knew she was Filipino, so, they were surprised to hear she was Asian. She did not look like your stereotypical Asian person to them. I’ve seen, she kind of gets upset when people still call her a Mexican, when she’s obviously told them she’s Filipino. But I think some girls just do that to get on her nerves.

I do know, that a lot of people here are ignorant when it comes to other ethnic groups. They based things on stereotypes, cause in a small black and white town like this, you don’t exactly see many people of anything else.

I definitely do think there are prejudice at the schools and in the town and communities. I’ve heard people who don’t like Mexicans. One European American boy in the classroom, openly admitted in front of everyone that he doesn’t like Mexicans. No one made a fuss about it. They just shrugged it off. You don’t like Mexicans, whatever. There was no known people of Mexican decent in the classroom or school. So, it was like whatever, no one made a big deal. None of them were Mexicans. If he had said African American, then there would have been a big deal. My sister’s Cajun boyfriend is very open about his prejudice. He makes a lot of judgments based on race and/or ethnicity. His biological grandfather was white. He has white friends. His brother has had white girlfriends, spent holidays with them. Yet, he still says, he won’t dare trust a white person. And my sister, we’ve both had a love with the Spanish language and the Hispanic culture. We both took Spanish in high school. He doesn’t like Mexicans, and doesn’t want to even listen to the language they speak. I don’t know what to say about it. My sister seems to exhibit the same behavior. She doesn’t seem to know much about other people’s cultures, and doesn’t seem to really want to know. She goes by stereotypes a lot too. I mean she still refers to every East Asian looking person as Chinese. And I’m like no, that’s Japanese or Korean, it is different. And she kind of shrugs a lot things that are Asian off. It’s not that she’s racist against them, she just doesn’t really know much of anything about them. And I think that’s the main thing that’s a problem here.

Religion is also something that people are prejudice against. I remember being in a classroom. And we were going over social studies. Free discussion. Just about anything that was happening in the world today. And then comes up about the discussion of Muslims. And people are like ‘I don’t like them’ ‘God doesn’t like them, he’ll send them to hell’ And the teacher is like, ‘yeah their evil’ And in another discussion about how the government wants to erase God in the Pledge of Allegiance and the B.C and A.D stuff. And one girl was like, ‘Well everyone should be Christians.’ And some people even mentioned that if they don’t like it, then they should get out. And I’m kind of appalled by it. I’m not Muslim, but I felt so uncomfortable with them just ranting on about how bad and wrong they are for having a religion that is not their own. I’m a very open minded person. I love learning about other’s people cultures. I’m more fascinated by it then anything else. I enjoy watching foreign movies, listening to foreign music. I’m just very interested with learning more about other people, and how they live and view the world. I think I’m the only one in my immediate family that does.

But to most people, I’m a Black girl, multi-racial or not. And some expect me to fall into the stereotypes of a Black girl. I’m supposed to like Hip-Hop and Rap. I’m supposed to fall head over heels for the Black guy. I’m suppose to talk like they do. If I don’t, then they would accuse me of acting white, or trying to be white.
I find nothing wrong with the style of Rap and Hip-Hop. Some of their themes and messages I don’t approve of, but you can find stuff like that in almost any genre of music. And I’m a person who would listen to any type of music. No matter who sings it, no matter what type, no matter what language. I don’t discriminate when it comes to the many genres of music. I adore interracial relationships. I think they are awesome, and very symbolic. Like these two different people from different races and ethnicities can just come together and love each other. It shows we don’t have to hate one another. We could get along, if we just made the effort to. There are a few interracial relationships at my school, not many. And most don’t seem to last for very long. One guy told me, that he liked this Black girl, but he couldn’t date her cause her parents wouldn’t allow her to. And this white girl said her parents see nothing wrong with her having black friends, but they don’t want her to have a black boyfriend.

But I’m ranting here, so I’ll just stop. So sorry.


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No, Mexicans and Asians would have definately gone to the "black" prom. Trust me, having LIVED in Mississippi and being born there versus visiting, I would know. I didn't know what a Mexican was until I moved to Arizona at the age of eleven. A good number of white people there have nothing positive to say about Mexicans, something I've learned from going back there to visit.

My uncle came out to Arizona to visit and all he could say was, "Goddamn, got all these signs in Spanish. Last time I checked, Arizona was apart of the United States, if I wanted to be in Mexico I'd go there."


I know, it's sad. But I have a lot of Mexican friends that think they are immune to racism from whites, and I'm like, you just don't know.


By the way, I'm biracial. I see both sides of the fence, my mom is black and my dad is white. But I've only heard whites openly say they don't like Mexicans.

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I live not too far away from Charleston. I am multiracial. My dad is Hispanic and Native American.

In this area, there aren't very many Asians, or Hispanics. My dad was a teenager in the 50s and did indeed attend the white high school in the town he grew up in. I've seen his yearbook. Asian students were there as well, but he told me that it wasn't always that way.

My school had a integrated prom, but it if were segregated I probably would have opted not to go.


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