Was anyone else disturbed by the ending? (spoilers)
I think we would all agree that the intention behind the ending of the film is supposed to be positive. But it really rubbed me the wrong way. Here are my reasons:
1) Gunn's parents reveal that they suspected he was gay at least since his second year of high school, yet they continued to assume he was straight. Assuming a child is straight is probably the single most contributing factor to staying in the closet for so many years. It sends the message that you expect the child to be straight, so the child becomes apprehensive about talking about it. This made me see the parents in a rather negative light at this point in the film.
2) Similarly, it really bothered me when the father said "You just showed what kind of man you are by being honest with us", almost as if the burden were completely on his son. I mean, sure, it is ultimately the son's responsibility to reveal his sexuality when he's ready, but it is also the responsibility of a parent to create an environment in which a child is comfortable with being himself. And ultimately I think the parents failed in that area.
3) After learning that her son is gay, the mother tells him to go put on some "real" clothes, at which point he goes to his room and comes out with some stereotypical "gay" clothing. I found this to be over-the-top and just leveraged stereotypes unnecessarily.
All and all, definitely not a poor film. I enjoyed it. The ending just didn't sit well with me at all.
Did anyone else have this reaction?