So unfair for Cooper


He's the one character - and only gay character - in the show who didn't get any equal treatment as the other actors did as far as depicting their love lives outside their police business. All the love scenes the heterosexual characters got to have and the joy they got out of sex and intimacy made them seem more alive and human, whereas the heavy suppression they did with Cooper made him seem less than the rest of them.

For five seasons in a row, they made him such a miserable character who couldn't put his guard down and lose his body and soul to anyone. For three years he was in a relationship with Cesar, who we only saw for at least three or four episodes, but we never saw anything more than a naked body in bed and a pat on the shoulder. No kisses, no cuddling, no happy morning talk in bed, and no dates. He deserved more than just looking so cold and distant because all the demons he struggled with in regards to his back injury, his murderous father, and his addiction made him too bleak of a character and never allowed us to see the moments where he could be happy with a person the way Regina King, Shawn Hatosy, and Ben McKenzie got to be, mainly because they were playing straight people.

I wish they could have shown more of him trying to drive away those demons by giving into the joy of love, sex, and affection and they suppressed that as a way of showing a gay character as having less value as a straight character. Whether it was the network's reluctance or Michael Cudlitz' reluctance, this show just ended with him as being nothing but a sad lonely character. If only the series wasn't cancelled, there should have been more chances for them to bravely let him get away with more enjoyment out of his life through the same way the other characters could as opposed to spending too much time with his miserable life on the force.

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I agree. I felt for him. I do have a mad crush, but that's not why. His character was well written for all the pain, but it would have been nice to see him beat the addiction. What season/eps was his man in? I don't recall. It seems like his character had the most room for development. He rarely smiled at all. We should have had the character come out of it a bit, like you said, and enjoy something in life.

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He should have used his medical plan to go into treatment for both his drug problem and his homosexuality. BOTH psychological issues are related to each other. If he kicked the homosexuality he could get off drugs more easily.

It would have sent a great message.

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He did, about the drugs. The other part, no comment. They are totally not related.

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Cooper may not have had the sex, boyfriend, love connection as many did on the show, but he seemed to loosen up and appeared more relaxed and lighthearted on S4 when partnering with Jessica Tang (Lucy Liu. I know there were twist and turns later on, but his character seemed more kind and less detached.

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just like he did for drugs. That is TWO psyche probs he has. It would have painted him as courageous and set a good example.

The fact that he was closeted amplified his drug use, it always does.



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Cooper struck me as a private man to begin with, keeping his work life and home/personal life completely separate. Sure, Dewey and Chickie made mention of his ex, Laurie, as they had known him longer. we didn't find out until late s5 that Dewey was aware that John was gay for a long time, and it didn't matter to him, despite his character's constant loud, abrasive, and often racist remarks.


The closest we did see to Cooper having a "sex scene" was a brief glimpse of Cesar as John rolled out of bed, and a one night stand in the shower scene opener that we finally saw John happy and, in moments, turn dark because the guy verbally blew him off.


As for who was behind the limited personal life, I'm thinking more network than actor. After all, one of the first projects Mike did after Southland was "Dark Tourist" (aka Grief Tourist), where he plays a similar type of character and attempts sex with Meg Ryan before he actually bottoms for a transsexual prostitute in one scene. We don't see "Lil Mike" in this scene or the earlier scene with Meg, but we do see his bare ass and her t!ts and (probably fake) manhood. of course, then he spirals out of control after that, so this character is more repressed than Cooper. Also, we saw (dolphin smooth?) Abra-bum on Walking Dead while on Rosita and they laughed about Eugene watching them. So it's doubtful Mike was against a sex scene for Cooper, but you could say he has made up for it since.


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Cooper felt "guilty" over his lifestyle...I think that's why you never saw it in any other aspect. No real closeness...or loving way. He was this hard ass because of his father and his failed marriage...he had to be this tough as nails manly man 24/7/365. He wasn't about to allow himself any happiness or to let anyone in really. His job was the most important thing. I think he loved his wife and really struggled with letting her down in so many ways. At least that's how I see him. No offense to anyone in my thoughts here.

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