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whats so wrong about being an 18 year old virgin


I can see 40 being a bad age to be a virgin but REALLY 18. I mean come on. Isn't it better to just wait until the right person comes along before jumping right in at 18. you're just too young to be doing that sort of stuff. I'm about to turn 18 and in no way do i want to lose my virginity yet.

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amen

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yep , nothing wrong with still being a virgin . if you dont wanna have sex then you dont have to , and dont let any loser pressure you into it .

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That's five years without sex, which is a long time for most people.

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This movie just lost my interest when after 6 seconds into it a hot young girl totally obsessed and dreamed about an 18 year old guy with a Love-Belt the size of a 50-year old. I hope this is not what the world has come to. Oh cool, it's not. It's got a 2.3/10 rating at IMDB. Heeeehaaaw

Level of quality matters. More than you know.

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Lol. If I had to list my priorities, or even just what I like to do, Sex would be about number 20.

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you must not have very good sex if that many things beat it.....

and nothing wrong with bein a virgin at 18 but most people like to have fun when they can
from my experience most people lose it around 15

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Sex is about a 20? Are you a guy? Honestly, your "first time", or losing your virginity is pretty overrated. By overrated I mean that first person you have sex with in the long run generally doesn't matter honestly. Chances are you'll be around 16-20, and you won't end up with that person. It'll just become a memory.

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i have a friend that i had a boyfriend since she was 16, now married to that person and shes 27. its now there 7th wedding anniversary and they didnt have sex til they were married. now i have a girlfriend now, and of course we've had sex, and we have plans to get married and im only 16. and i will end up with her, i cant wait to prove you wrong :)

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LMAO

Still with her slugger?

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My first time was pretty radical. I lost it to the woman who is now my wife. I was 18 at the time.

Still, three things make me truly happy: my wife, music, and beer. Sex is fantastic - really *beep* great - but it's not the most important thing ever.

Jerry Seinfeld in: Atlas Shrugged – "What is the deal with John Galt, anyway?"

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You rate beer above "being intimate" (sex) with the wife you proclaim to love cause she makes you truly happy.
What is wrong with that picture...

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Absolutely nothing. Perhaps being happy with someone is more important than orgasms?

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ITT. this thread is full of virgin losers

whats so wrong about being an 18 year old virgin ?

its PATHETIC

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yeah there's nothing wrong with it. even 20++ virgin are also okay.
humans are complex being, not necessary just sexual being.
in matter of fact, based on cakra stuffs and aura stuffs, sexuality is in the most low cakra and emit red aura color.
in the highest, i guess it's in the mind/consciousness and perhaps purple color.

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It's not pathetic! C'mon, I have two relly close friends(girls) that are good looking and really don't lack male attention, one of them's 19 and the other one is 20 and they're both VIRGINS. And I'm telling you it's not cause they didn't get the chanse. They just don't wanna do it for the sake of doing it...

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Kentpaul09 said:

ITT. this thread is full of virgin losers

whats so wrong about being an 18 year old virgin ?

its PATHETIC


And people wonder why younger generations are getting dumber and dumber. I'm 21, still a virgin by choice, and I am appalled by my peers. Disgusting. It's sad and terrifying to think these sorts of people will be running the world in a number of years.

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That's why we have to kill them off early

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Hahaha. So true.

And putting an age on when to lose virginity is part of the problem. No one wants to teach kids about safe sex but if you're still a virgin at 18, it's "pathetic"??? Come the *beep* on.

I'm a virgin. I'm 21. And I'm fine with that. Why? Well, part of it is not being like some of my classmates and "being happy" about their pregnancies. Pregnant at 21!?

No thanks! =D

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I agree, I lost my virginity at 17, and at hindsight, I wish I would've waited a wee bit longer. Okay, maybe that is a half-lie. But the truth is the circumstances I lost it under made me act (not think) like that was the only way to get a woman.

Now many of my friends that started having sex at 14-15 have kids, marriage problems (some are only 25 and on their second marriages), etc. Most got into these really heavy relationships waaaaay too fast and obviously burned out on it. I may be moving like a snail in comparison, but at least I don't have all those problems, and kids I can't barely take care of.

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nothing wrong with bein a virgin at 18

But it's too wrong if u don't like "The notebook" Movie ;)

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Virgin at 18? Nothing "wrong".... but a little strange, at least from my point of view. I know that some beliefs might try to do it´s best to suppress a teens sexuality - but hey, what are we talking about here, really? "Virginity" is not that good a thing you know. It is not a physical thing you can put in a box and save for a rainy day - and it sure as taxes does not get better as it ages.

And sex is FUN, and when those feelings awakens in a young person - it is really exciting to explore it. I don´t think that should be saved but relished and encouraged. But hey, that´s just me, and being Swedish - I suppose it is in my genes :)

--==I Will Prevail==--

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And sex is FUN, and when those feelings awakens in a young person - it is really exciting to explore it

Sure, rub it in.

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"Virginity" is not that good a thing you know

Then why is called losing your virginity, like it's something valuable?

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nope, nothing wrong with being a virgin at 18 or any age, it just depends on when that particular person matures.
however it is NOT better to succumb to pressure to either lose it or save it further than you personally, truly, want to. Thats just oppression.
When youre horny enough to want it, go for it. Thats why you go thru puberty, to become a sexually reproductive (or recreative, whichever floats your boat) creature.

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I think it's perfectly normal to be an 18 year old virgin, thats about the age that most of the people get the chance to lose it..2 years more or less, i cannot really see the difference. Its actually better if you do it with a person you have a relationship with, and not someone you just met. That was my case anyway, and i dont regret it.
However i think that the first time is much more important for the girls.
Boys tend not to take theirs so seriously, as they are rather insensitive. At least I didn't care if it was then or 1 or 2 years later. No complaints it came early though ;-)

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As they say "God gave us sex, priests gave us marriage".

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absolutely nothing, but this movie isn't about telling you what to be, or how to think, it's a JOKE! a Parody! If you are still a virgin at 18, more power to you, but, please, grow a sense of humor, not everything is a life lesson or social cometary. (Maybe no sense of humor might be why you are a virgin...)<---also, a JOKE. because apparently people need to be told these things!
..you know whats really pathetic? someone at 18 with kids.

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