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Saw it last night on TV with the wife


& we had a few of those "married too long, uncomfortable chuckles" while we watched this because they hit pretty close to home with their jokes about middle class, suburban life. In a way, it reminded me of the "Vacation" series of movies because a reoccurring theme in those films was also making fun of that type of lifestyle. I don't normally even like a "rom com" type movie (if that's what you would even call this since it's almost an action-adventure comedy film, but I digress) so when they got to the bedroom scene at the very beginning, it was so dead on accurate in it's portrayal of boring, married suburban life that I decided to watch the whole thing with her. I mean, my wife sleeps with a Cpap machine on & I use Breathright strips too so, yeah, spontaneous, exciting sex? Well, that went by the wayside a few years ago. I was pleasantly surprised by all the injokes about married life in general & all the suburban clichés that we both laughed all the way thru because we knew we were really laughing at ourselves. "But the city is sooo faaaar!" Yeah, we have that discussion every weekend. Where do you want to go? I don't know, Outback or Olivegarden? We have (had) crazy friends or family like they did that decided to go off & live a slightly "alternative" lifestyle like their friends that spilt at the start of the film, we know people like the high tech operative guy that to us seems to lead a fantasy life, we go to average joe restaurants & eat crappy food like potatoe skins, we feel socially awkward in fru-fru settings, & we like being at home- all shown perfectly for comedy effect in the film. At a few points during the movie we litterally looked at each other & said out loud - "that's it! That's us!", the writers, producers, & crew really "got" that whole feel for what this crazy life is really like & for that fact alone, I honestly enjoyed this film. I guess it made us realize that, yeah, we're boring, but we choose to be boring together.

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I really liked reading this review. I love this film too and it's a pretty accurate depiction of married life :-)



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Just because YOU don't like something doesn't mean it is empirically not good.-Tina Fey

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I guess, at the end of the day, I can honestly say that I like my ordinary, average guy life that I live. I know some people would laugh at me for saying that - they might feel that the old school version of marrige that I find comforting is really cliché, dull, & boring, but I'm a simple man & to love & be loved back, to be comfortable, & have a few nice things, to enjoy (most of the time) your job, to do fun hobbies, spend time with the family, the little things, that's good enough for me. This movie made me realize it even more because after I saw it, I thought about all the people I know that aren't married anymore or single people that don't have what I have & I feel bad for them. Do I sometimes envy the freedom they have to do whatever they want? Sure, I'd be lying if I said otherwise, but I wouldn't trade places for anything. With that being said, I've also noticed that some people I know are jelous of what I have & they wouldn't think twice about tearing it all apart if they could. This movie made me make an assesment. Even though this crazy life is an every day challenge, where else would you rather be?

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yeah, we're boring, but we choose to be boring together.


I love you guys now. 💓

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Old souls like us reach a point in time where the influence of the mid-life crisis wanes a little & you start to see things more clearly. After our parents died, things seemed totally different now. You gain an appreiciation for what you have & you lose your will to worry about what you don't have. That's when things plane out & you actually feel sorry for your friends or similar age family members that are out there chasing the Devil at 40 years old. Do you "settle" a little for the life you have & not the one you thought you'de have? Well, maybe, but if you're comfortable in your own skin, you find happiness & gain a sense of place & belonging as if you were doing "what you're supposed to be doing". My son is getting closer to 20 & the next stage in this game will be grandchildern some day in the future. It all comes back around again. Synchronicity.

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