Okay more so than any other guy here I probably know a thing or two about this topic. I just had this movie on earlier today on Stars. Very long story short, the love of my life left me a while back because she decided to be a lesbian. It was honestly the worst experience of my life, I've never been hurt physically or emotionally as bad as what this girl put me through.
When I was younger, like 13-16 years old, I will admit I loved lesbian scenes in any movie. I was a typical teenage boy. Two hot girls locking lips and getting it on? That stuff drove me wild back in the day. And even when I got older, now in my 20's I still like that stuff why not I'm a straight guy?
Well after what happened to me with this ex, I can never look at lesbians or girl on girl the same again. This girl has permanently scarred for life. It's been a long time and although I am over the break up it's really hard for me to appreciate any woman or even look at them without wondering what secrets they are hiding.
And watching scenes like this in a movie? It doesn't turn me on, in fact it breaks my heart because I think of my ex. She wants to be normal and have a man and a family, she tried to change herself for me but that's just the way she is she can't. They are born the way they are. When I watch stuff like that I think of her kissing a girl and it's completely disturbing.
So for the guys out there, keep an open mind at the very least and I think most of you should change your attitude on this kind of stuff. Your own girlfriend, or maybe even your sister or MOTHER can be one of them, it's very very secretive with woman. And if you think stuff like this is hot in a movie think of what happened to me. How would you feel if the woman you love left you because she likes woman?!
Do I have anything against lesbians or gays? No. Not even after what happened to me, in fact I support their cause more now. If people weren't so biased against it maybe this wouldn't have happened to me or others. Some people get married and have it happen to them. It's scary to think about it going that far. But yea it's no fun when you are thrown into that lifestyle, a straight normal man being forced to become part of the lesbian lifestyle. There were many signs she was a lesbian but it flew over my head. In my mind all woman want a prince charming and want to be happy with a guy. Well it turns out some woman want a princess instead if that makes sense!
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golden_muse
12 years ago
I totally understand; a lot of my female friends just love man/man erotic romance (actually, man/man sells a little better than man/woman when it comes to written erotica); but a few years ago I heard a very special man in my life talk about his ball and chain--come to find out he wasn't talking about me, but the man he'd been seeing behind my back. I have nothing against gays, but I do have something against deception; and yeah, I can't get any sort of a charge out of writing, watching or reading about two men together.
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