Don't confuse 'smart' with 'good'
I think I understand what some of the upper-crust critics who loved this movie so much (and put it in their top 10) saw in it. It is a smart movie - it takes a subtle, unique, and contemplative look at big issues such as class/caste, and how this woman who is torn in so many directions repeatedly chooses inaction over action...
But just because something contains smart ideas and an unusual approach, does it make it a 'good' movie? ...Regardless of how effective it is in connecting with people and communicating those ideas? I don't understand this approach. Sure a film can occasionally toy with the viewer - frustrate their expectations, challenge them, but to disregard the viewer altogether seems nothing but wrongheaded and condescending to me.
And all along the way the movie shows its near hatred for the viewer. From the very beginning it tells me nothing, and shows me nothing. The film seems to think itself better for its daring to show us only what a paraplegic fly on the wall might see. Many viewers spend the first half of the movie not even knowing what's going on. You might say "that's brilliant, cuz she doesn't quite know what's going on either!," but I call bullsh!t -- a great film engages us, or at the very least considers us -- it is a communicative work that considers where we are and where it wants to take us.
But Headless Woman does not consider us - or at least none but those few overly-patient cineastes who are able to remain engaged solely on the ideas behind the story... those few who apparently spend an hour and a half not wondering what they might learn about the characters or the story or the world, but about the final puzzle pieces that might enlighten their view of the director's exercise of mental masturbation. Like masturbation, they seemingly don't care if it goes nowhere... so long as it affords them the opportunity to scratch their chins and self-congratulate themselves on being able to find something of worth in something which others below them find useless.
At the end of the day, the Headless Woman doesn't care for me, and I surely don't care for it.
...Please do correct me if I'm wrong. I'm no absolutist, but this is how I see things at the moment.