Did NO ONE get this???
This has NOTHING to do with her husband, or the boyfriends...it has to do with the abuse from her father when she was a child. At that age, the most important man in her life told her that her only worth was when it was based in sexuality. Since something similar happened to me, I can verify what that feels like.
Her husband could have been the PERFECT man; her boyfriends could have also been perfect. NOTHING to do with it. Her worth was something they couldn't fix; it only had to do with how she felt about herself.