I may have come across too harshly.
But the internet does allow us all to secretly indulge in our worse impulses. Pedophiles roam the internet. Porn sites are at a all time high as scummy predators seek college campuses and chat rooms and internet sites looking for people who haven't formed their moral center yet.
I'm not judging you but we should seek love, and if it's sexual love that you particularly desire, then we should be seeking love between not just consensual sex between a man and a woman but covenantal sex where it is two who've chosen to be life partners.
I'm a man of color as well, "spunk" like the character you mentioned and let's just say that I'm comfortable with the ladies if you will. But, in these times of millennial American privileged feminism that woefully promotes 'sex positive' behavior which is only a pseudonym for promiscuity, I know that true bliss comes from two who choose to be with each other sexually out of commitment, loyalty and devotion. And carnal lust does help :)
In respect, forgive me if I've come across too forward.
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