So the Soul Mate Is...
Obviously the ex she shares the dog with. The signs she's supposed to see were there but she missed them:
He found her sister's engagement ring, and held it up as if he were proposing to her and he uncovered the picture of the woman that will be watching over her, which was a sign within itself.
I can't even watch the show asuming she finds her soul mate since I think it's the ex. I can only watch to see the hilarity that ensues with her reconnecting with her ex-boyfriends.
Amanda: "Aren't you gay?"
Nick: "Only around you"
- Ugly Betty