Maybe the event you saw was with a gay league. There are a few all-lesbian leagues around that I've heard of.
I just joined a derby team in Florida. Considering the amount of husbands and boyfriends who show up to practices and who ref the games (including my own husband), I'd say a majority of the girls are straight, maybe all of the girls. No idea really though, the subject of sexuality hasn't come up because - newsflash - IT DOESN'T MATTER. A girl's sexuality has NOTHING to do with her ability to hit hard and get around the track. Most of us really could care less who we're on a team with as long as she can hustle, follow the rules, and do what she's supposed to do. That's ALL that matters in derby.
You're too bogged down in stereotypes, and I can tell you with a measure of certainty that your generalization is far less offensive to me than it would be to a lesbian (they aren't all jocks!). I know you didn't mean to offend anyone, but being gay yourself, you should know better.
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