You know what the sad thing is...KEEP BELIEVING THAT. Because the ones who mainly lose out are the ones who believe that. Whatever happened to believing you could overcome, or if theyre so courageousm using their courage to go against the grain, if theyre so tough, using their toughness to stay out of this bad life.
I know the economy and society plays a role in s**t like this, but people can live with a mindset of Determinism or a mindset of Proactivity and Self Control. Determinism says "Its in my genes, its my family's fault. Its the society, the environment is at fault. Its the way I was raised, its my mothers fault." Proactive people say "No matter what has happened in the past or where I come from, I make my own choices and I take responsibility for myself, if I fall 99 times I am geting up 100 times. I will make this work."
Youd be surprised at how many "successful" people come from lives far worse than you would ever imagine. Its easy to look at somebody who has done something with their life and say "They must have had all the breaks, and all the opportunities, they have good fortune or whatever." When in fact that is usually not the case. Most people who truly succeed in life come from terrible circumstances, much worse than living on a council estate or growing up in a tough neighborhood. And the reason they have so muh passion for living a good life is due to the amount of discontent they have for the life they once lived, it becomes their fuel, most people who have it all handed to them end up mediocre, average, or slightly above par. And Im not simply speaking of making money, being insanely rich isnt the measure of a persons greatness. My god, there are people in wheelchairs who can barely move anything on their body who find a way to go to school, play sports, hold down some kind of a job.
Nobody with a heart WANTS to see kids grow up like this, act like this and think there is nothing that can be done. But the first thing that needs to be done is to take away the excuses, and show people they can live a better life.
I made plenty of mistakes, and I corrected them and I paid for them for sure. So I am not preaching, and Im not a saint, but I live according to my principles and I respect myself.
And yes, the people that are involved in these kids' lives, the teachers, the parents, the families, the agencies and even law enfocement need to stop with the excuses too, they need to go the extra mile for these kids, they need to care about making a difference and put in their work too. But in the end, if all you've got is you, things may be very difficult, but not impossible.
People on this planet have been poor for ages, a lot poorer than even a person with nothing out there in the cities, people used to have nothing and they were out in the wilderness, the poorest person nowadays living in a society has it better than poor people have ever had it and we have ALWAYS had the poor.
Im not bringing down judgement or trying to ridicule, Im trying to express the idea that excuses can be made for anything and everything, and some are very valid, but they are still excuses and although there is leniency and understanding, there is a line that has to be drawn.
Imagine what 20 of these poor kids could do if they sat down and decided to work as a team to create some sort of business, or means of an income that was legal. Its not about being poor and forced into a life of crime, its about using your hardships as an excuse to be a bada**, and to do whatever you wish to do, and to hurt other people, steal, kill, whatever it is that flashes through their minds in the split second before they take anothers life for some gear, tennis shoes and a FUBU jacket.
Or maybe its the music...the music made them do it?? ;P
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