Well, that's an oversimplification, with all due respect. Yes, let people like what they like and live as they live. But it's a fact that people like to see people like themselves (or people they can somehow imagine being themselves), in films and books. A lesbian has a book or film she very much favors and it features a lesbian. So? I still don't follow how that's "ticking the boxes." Sexuality's a part of everyday life, and if she happens to read a book and the protagonist reminds her of her own life, or presents a part of her life that's never been featured in the mainstream, of course she's going to be interested, and of course it's going to mean something to her. How is that showing off? More to the point, how does it effect anyone else? Why should she have to favor something that features a heterosexual person in order to confirm her humanity or objectivity? If it were the reverse, and a heterosexual person were demanded to favor a film or book featuring a homosexual, it would be decried as "political correctness," as something unreasonable and insincere...
A lesbian community as "special club." What nonsense. To the extent that lesbians continue to have other lesbian friends and lean on them, it is a result of continued prejudice, maybe not the kind that can get her beaten or get her fired (though such things do happen in exceptional circumstances), but the kind that might very well get her ostracized, or not hired to begin with, or might cause her to make a heterosexual friend with demands rather like yours - 1) never mention a gay book or film 2) never mention a love interest 3) never mention the way that cunning bigots who know not to raise the issue of sexuality overtly might continue to effect your life. That is the new attitude, and it's frustrating. Prejudice has gone underground. So while a person may be more than happy to make friends with others, she also has the right to find strength in others like herself.
All of that notwithstanding, what you're saying makes damned little sense. And, to upset the apple cart, I thought the "Affinity" adaptation was just average.
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