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A girl with university degree becomin a prostitute?


Do you think it is possible in reality that a nymphomaniac with university degree would become a prostitute for a living? That's a bit strange...

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Why? If there is no other way to "fix" that 'urge'?

I mean, there are people out there who have "illicit" desires,
and they end up in Jail for that. Every 'normal' person would
say "Hey, 15 minutes of fun isn't worth x years of jail?"

Yes, there is no logic into that type of "genetic behavior".

What other remedy does a supposed 'nymphomaniac' have besides
going into porn (which requires a high desire of showing off)
or being a (high-end) prostitute?

There was once a documentation about European "sex addicts",
and many of them where half time "escorts". One man, quite
normal looking, said in that documentation that he wanted
to be a doctor to understand his "condition". After lot of
therapy and medication, he became somehow a doctor.

But he got fired from every hospital, because he simply couldn't
stop "fingering" with the nurses to that extent that he went way
too far, always asking for "action" in most inappropriate times.

Now he works like a drifter here and there, and you saw in this
documentation that he couldn't focus on the camera. He was too
freaky horny and at the end he hit on the woman who interviewed
him, who was a three times mother - and 49.

For me, this is very reasonable. Lot of chicks from diverse
backgrounds do stuff like "nude dancers" or "sm-stuff" to vent
off their (boring|stupid) normal life. Some people can't imagine
a normal life, they want their "urges" define their life. And
they are very happy with it.

Michael

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Why? If there is no other way to "fix" that 'urge'?[...]

What other remedy does a supposed 'nymphomaniac' have besides
going into porn (which requires a high desire of showing off)
or being a (high-end) prostitute?


That's the odd part. She can look at a random guy at a bus stop and have sex with him. This is quite different from a male sex addict's dilemma. I can't imagine Valére would have a hard time picking up a guy at a club. Prostitution just seems a bit extreme given that ***she's a woman***. I emphasize this because women (especially ones as attractive and seductive as Valére) would never have a hard time picking up a guy. Even a woman who isn't as attractive wouldn't have much trouble if she's as open sexually as Valére and can tell a man that she wants him. She could have a new random guy every night if she wants -- quite different from a desperate man.

That said, she also needed money as a result of the unrealistic douche she had for a fiancée. Given that, prostitution seems a bit less extreme of a choice. The movie should have put more emphasis on the money aspect.

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I didn't even have to read your whole schpiel. No, no woman would ever become a prostitute to deal with their sexual urges. Only a male would believe something dumb like that. It's not hard for a female to have sex. Hell, if a female, no matter how ugly, went up to a random guy and said "I want sex" there'a a super high chance sex is going to happen.

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I don't know if You object to "university degree" or "nymphomaniac", or both.

In case it's the first -
it's not something one normally talks about, but there are girls (in France and presumably elsewhere) who become escorts to *finance* their university education, *while* they are students.

It's not mentioned - social don't ask, don't tell policy.

(Also, don't know about Your assumptions wrt. job security and income post-university, but especially if someone gets in the business during, and develops a certain clientele, they may well find that keeping the line of work is significantly more profitable and recession-proof than going the application milk round.)

Not that I'm advocating it or anything - just aware that it happens, and has several reason.

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Being a pro is not about intelligence. It is about circumstance.

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well seeing as Belle de Jour of Secret Diary of a Call girl fame is a university educated scientist, no it doesn't seem like that much of a stretch to me.

Es que no tenerte aquí ya me hace mal - Shakira

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I know that there are girls becomin prostitutes coz of lack of money, but i dont think that they would normally choose this job just to fulfil sexual desires, i dont think it's very logical. she could surely find a normal job and have many lovers if she wanted to...

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u get lovers on a normal job but they wont be guaranteed to know how to perform in the sack, whereas men who go get whores know their way around and stuff.






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"u get lovers on a normal job but they wont be guaranteed to know how to perform in the sack, whereas men who go get whores know their way around and stuff."

Not true at all. Just look at the handicapped guy in the movie. Even virgins use prostitues sometimes.

She would take the job to have the chance to satisfy her needs and make money in the process. This job is not a guarantee of sexual abilities, but a guarantee of sex. And sometimes that doesn't even happen. She is also looking to fit in to some degree. Sex is her drug and trying to find that perfect orgasm is trying to find that perfect high, so she surrounds herself with an environment that she thinks has a higher likelyhood of offering that experience. She also seems to want to loose herself, to become someone different and thus she attempts to turn herself into an object.

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I don't think it's very logical either, because these men are paying for their own pleasure and don't hold the prostitute in very high regard.

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Does logic really seem like the kind of thing you should be arguing? I'm going to put your misspelled words in bold. Let's review:

I know that there are girls becomin prostitutes coz of lack of money, but i dont think that they would normally choose this job just to fulfil sexual desires, i dont think it's very logical. she could surely find a normal job and have many lovers if she wanted to...

Spellcheck exists online. There are several sites that provide this function. Embace one.

Now, as for your opinion, do you honestly believe that no other person can have a different motivation than what you define as accurate? What about a person that steals or lies, or even commits murder? Or do you have experience in those areas and consider yourself an expert?

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Embace?

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No.It makes all the sense in the world to me. When she lost her first job in the movie, that's first thing that came to mind. Not a hooker, a high class female escort.She does what she enjoys, and gets paid to do it.You'd be very surprised how many sex worker's are very educated and very wealthy..

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It's the rare university graduate who can make several hundred dollars per hour. The only strange part is that she didn't start earlier and drop out instead of wasting prime earning and fvcking years

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It's not that strange, when you think of the number of older people who come out as being gay, change jobs, or even go to college.

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There are LOTS of women with university degrees that are involved in the sex industry, either as nude models, webcam girls, strippers, or call girls. There is nothing unusual about this. Victoria Zdrok, who has both a law degree and a PHD, did nude modelling and girl/girl sex videos and solo masturbation scenes. Even today, after choosing to work as a sex therapist and author, she still performs sex scenes on her website and even convinced her sister and mother to get into the business. A beautiful woman can make far more money doing porn or stripping than she can with most "legitimate" career paths. (and have a lot more fun doing it).

Also, it depends what type of university degree you have. MOST university degrees (approx. 75%) are NOT WORTH the time, money, and effort required to obtain them and many people do NOT experience any economic benefit from their degree. There are many people with Fine Art degrees (history majors, psychology majors, women's studies, etc) that find their degree has absolutely no value in the real world and does NOT get them a good job. Even lots of people with business degrees (commerce, finance, etc) find that these degrees don't land them any better job than people who only have a high school education. They are making $30,000 a year, while many porn stars make $250,000+. Only really good degree programs that lead to a guaranteed job and high income have any value. (such as medicine, dentistry, nursing, etc)So its not unusual for a woman with a university degree to realize that it was a waste of time and decide to go into the sex industry instead.

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There are LOTS of women with university degrees that are involved in the sex industry, either as nude models, webcam girls, strippers, or call girls. There is nothing unusual about this. Victoria Zdrok, who has both a law degree and a PHD, did nude modelling and girl/girl sex videos and solo masturbation scenes. Even today, after choosing to work as a sex therapist and author, she still performs sex scenes on her website and even convinced her sister and mother to get into the business. A beautiful woman can make far more money doing porn or stripping than she can with most "legitimate" career paths. (and have a lot more fun doing it).

And not a single one of them will have sex with Me!!!!!! WAAAAAAAAAAAH-Kelly Castlebridge

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i've read that there are plenty of porn stars with college degrees. like the movie asked, what's so wrong with doing something a lot that you enjoy so much? and get paid for it, too.

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Yes, that's a bit strange for people who don't know there is a world like this hidden out there. If the girl has a high sex drive and no matter what education level she has, this thing can be happening. Even though she has a stable job in an office but she likes to shag also then one way to get more shagging is to become a prostitute.

Prostitution does not always constitute entirely for money only(yes, money is important to reimburse for the services provided). However, some prostitutes also like sex so much to the point that she is a nympho, she really enjoys doing the work (sex) rather than sitting in the office boring for half day doing the same paperwork over and over again.

That's the beauty of it :P. If u get a whore who is a nympho too, WOWWWWWWWw, man, that's really damn good f^king u will get and the sex must be explosive hehee.... The money spent to pay the whore is really worth it :P. Amazing, amazing and unbelievable!!!

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