The family in the movie was nothing like my extended family but the movie still felt true to me. That's what makes it so wonderful. If only the people who had similar families could enjoy it, then it would have a very limited appeal. But even people like me, who don't recognize themselves or their relations in it, can still appreciate the characterizations.
Oh, the characters in the movie were nothing like my family. I meant that the tiny details -- the women preparing the food, the children going off to play, the sharing of old photographs, the slight differences between the way you run your household and the way other people run theirs and the uncertainty you feel while you're a guest, and the overall awkwardness of spending all that time with people you don't really know that well -- those are the things that I recognized. Many, if not all, of those things are things that anyone can relate to.
And I don't think you have to relate to a movie to enjoy it. There are plenty of movies I enjoy because they open up an entirely different world for me. In this movie those small things that I recognized only added to my enjoyment, which still would have been great even without them.
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