How 'The Game' messed with me head
A WARNING: This is some heavy *beep* But its real and true.
I read 'The Game' by Neil Strauss when I was a 19 yr old virgin.
It blew me away. Not only was it the most entertaining non-fiction book I'd ever read, it gave me hope that a tall, skinny guy who didn't know how to talk to girls could get laid after all.
Now, I am a 20 yr old virgin, and I will be 21 in early August 2009.
When I read this book, it changed my perspective on women forever. And it impaired my mind about whether its okay to show a girl that you're interested in her. I'm still confused today if I should demonstrate interest in any girl I like.
Since reading this book, the laws of attraction are all a complex over-complicated chess game to me. I still put pussy on a pedestal. And I remind myself of Steve Carell's 40-yr-old Virgin, just younger at 20.
When I see regular dudes get girls at my summer job, I wonder to myself "How the hell did he do that?" And here I'm sitting just lost and *beep* clueless.
I've since renounced pick up, because it never yielded any real results for me (obviously), and the lines are getting too popular. (courtesy of VH1 Pick Up Artist).
In the process, I've never come to terms with just being cool with girls. I read every gesture as some sort of signal, every conversation as an IOI, and just stupid *beep*
And its all because some a**holes got together and made a natural mating process into an exact, minute science. And it *beep* with my head and is currently *beep* with my life.
I get all kinds of sh*t from my friends because I'm a handsome guy but I just never seal the deal. My mind plays tricks on me and I always blow it.
If you own The Game, never loan it to someone who's still a virgin, because no guy should have to go thru what I am.
When it comes to the girls now, I've recently been trying to start all over again from square one. I just try to be me, but its hard because this book engrained in my mind things about girls I will never let go of.
Let me hear your thoughts.