Heartwrenching. I Cried, and Cried, and then Cried Some More
I have been contemplating suicide for some years now. Right now i am 20 and till some months back, i had an almost-concrete plan of committing suicide. I come from a very conservative place where homosexuality was not even recognized as a social presence till some years ago. I can't even entertain the option of coming out to my family. Had it been only about my parents, i might have still contemplated this option. But it is also about my cousins, friends and the hundreds of others who I am acquainted with. I have no clue how hostile the reaction of people when they know about me, but i am sure I would not be accepted.
My magnum opus was to kill myself after crossing 25 or so but only after having written a story of my life. In the suicide note I had plans of mentioning that my last wish is to get this story published so that others do not have to go through what i have been going through. This was to ensure that my death does not go in vain. But then i thought i can not do this to my family. i would rather come out to them alive than come out to them posthumously. The pain in the latter case would definitely be greater to them. Now that i have scrapped this plan, i am at a loss of what I should do.
All in all, thus, i could relate to Bobby in the movie. The way he tried to feign his orientation by being with girls, the way he reacted when his grand mom said in the beginning that all queers must be hanged, his body language, his happy moments, his goodness, i could relate to everything.
And when he committed suicide, i was shattered. I haven't cried as much in any movie as i did in this one. Some scenes were especially tear-inducing: the moment when bobby's mom comes to know that her son is dead, the scene in the church when she cries that she has killed her son, the speech, when she reads his diary, the ending scene when she hugs that boy. All characters were really believable, the performances were great, the feeling was perfect, the soundtrack awesome.
I gave this a rare 10 on 10. And if imdb had an option of giving one movie 11 on 10, i mite have picked this up. The other option would have been Brokeback Mountain, which though did not make me cry as much as this one did, it certainly shattered my insides to tiny pieces. BBM was like vampires. Once it was in, it stayed. While this one was a tear gas. Once its effect started, it did not stop.