Notes on user comments
Sometimes when you read IMDb user comments you really want to answer back. So here it goes. Spoilers.
Turfseer's review complains that there is too little character detail and uses this to categorize the film as melodrama:
One notices that certain characters are underdeveloped in this movie--particularly weak portraits include the older brother who has been expelled by the family for leaving the sect as well as the mother, who moves out of the family home after her husband has an adulterous affair. One never feels that we get to know these characters as fully realized people at all--they're just there to further the plot along [...] The same thing can be said for Sara's boyfriend. We learn that he's a musician but we never find out anything else about him. What about the father? He works as a hotel clerk and that's it [...] As this is a melodrama, complex issues are often reduced to formulaic, black and white scenarios. Hence, Sara's decision to leave the sect almost seems preordained. Similarly, Sara's brother's decision to rejoin the sect is designed to shock but his actions are never really explained.It's an interesting point, but I am not convinced. I feel that I need to know all I need about the characters. The brother left because of his conscience and outlook, but ends up lonely and isolated to a degree that he cannot bear. We may think it should be possible to find friends or build a life, but he isn't strong like Sara turns out to be. I'm not sure why additional character detail would necessarily turn this into a better movie since everything needed to understand the characters is in my opinion already there. It may be an issue of wanting everything to be more clear, more spelled out in dialogue.
Popdrome's review is the one I am most in tune with:
Sara, in the end, makes a far from diminutive choice, a choice for a worldly life - eventually even breaking all attachments; her family, her boyfriend and ultimately, Jehova.Worldly choice is a great phrasing. It may require some thought why it is that Sara and Teis don't seem to end up together. I suppose in the end her choice is based on her conscience and not merely her young love. Her choice is to go into the world and build her own life. But I'm also troubled by one of this reviewer's conclusions:
The best thing this movie achieves, is it never judges. There's no "good" or "bad" when it comes to religion. The Jehova's are portrayed unbiased, not overly sympathized, not threatening. Every decision Sara and her family have to make is difficult, complex. Yet it's far from depressing. In fact all in all this ends up to be a very positive movie. Life has changed, life goes on. We all choose what we think is good for us.True in part, but come on: The brother chooses to go back out of weakness and anxiety to people who have coldly shunned him and condemned him. His sister is forced to choose between happiness and seeing her younger siblings grow up. There is good and bad when it comes to religion, and this film is determined to show it.
JBalslev's review is meaningful and poignant, but I have to point out its inconsistencies:
Sara and her family's lives are great and carefree before she meets Teis. Some people need something like religion to hold on to in order to get balance in their lives, and the film's portrayal of the family is so charming (yet presumably realistic) that you can't help but envy the relationship between the family members. There is a mutual love and unconditional solidarity and respect that I at least have rarely seen in non-religious homes.The family seems great and carefree, but as events unfold there are soon revelations: The mother has serious doubts about the way her children are being raised. The children are taught to be cold and hurtful towards their brother, who has been shunned into isolation. The children are meant to have no aspirations other than to get other people to share their religion. There is surface and there are undercurrents. The family solidarity is surely anything but unconditional: It rests on the condition that a set of religious rules be upheld. The father confirms in a great scene that his love of God is greater than his love for his children. share