So, did the older brother, after re-joining the church, follow the required protocol by shunning Sara like the rest of the family? or did he secretly keep in contact with her having been in her shoes?
This is entirely a persons decision to do though it is strongly expected of everyone to show loyalty to God. It depends on the brother's conviction that the shunning (disciplinary action)is in the best interest of his sister - to make her come to her senses and turn back away from a life of "wrongdoing", like it did to him.(JW's believe that living together as a couple outside the bond of marriage is fornication - a practice which the Bible condemns) They also believe that shunning protects the moral cleanliness of the whole flock. It would take a long while before a shunned person is accepted back into the fold after proving "repentance" for a period of time(may take several years).
In short, one may choose to continue associating with a shunned person, but it is strongly frowned upon. Not only it "exposes" one to dangerous moral influence but also, by condoning makes him/her a "sharer" of the wrongdoer's sin.
I know this from personal experience having been raised in the JW religion by my grandmother as a kid but never really stayed when I got older... Thankfully, I never got baptized, as they only have power over you if you have been baptized... baptism is like a document signing off your life and freedom to the religion.
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