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real life bigamist


This really doesn't have a lot to do with the movie... it just kinda creeped me out because my mom's uncle was a bigamist. His wife (my mom's aunt) was married to him for over thirty years when she found out. It was extra heartbreaking for her because he always said (after they got married, of course) that he didn't want any kids, even though he knew she did. Come to find out, he had a wife and 3 kids in another state. Ugh.

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That is awful. My husband said he didn't want kids either (nor did he want to adopt and raise someone else's) and now he is married to his High School gf (facebook of course) and she has two kids.

All I can say is they can't be monogamous or they are just creepy and liars. My guy had EVERYONE fooled until they found out of course.

Basically they are sociopaths if they have that much lack of feeling for someone who loves them.

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They are good at that. My ex had a lot fooled and still does, and he is a fairly high ranking military officer. I wanted so badly to out him and trash his career but his son was still a minor and I wouldn't have hurt that kid for anything. His biological mother was already a worthless whore and I just couldn't let him see that his father was as bad or worse. He knows now, but I could not be the one responsible for his finding out.

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