Here's a snippet from an interview with director Andreas Dresen, which might help to understand:
Question:
Why shouldn't she just enjoy it? Why shouldn't everyone just have a nice time and not pull anyone's feet off the ground with a certain truth after 30 years together?
Andreas Dresen:
"An attitude like that is quite pracmatical. Inge is really loving her Werner. This results in her having to tell him the truth. This is the biggest proof of respect she can show to him, she really is respecting him in this moment. Of course she is not being rewarded for it. I'm admiring her for this honesty. I don't know if I would be able to it."
Still, I personally think it's selfish and stupid...
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