Sad...Spoilers

Wow this is the saddest movie I have seen in a long time, get the kleenex out for this film. This woman will never get over this as she despite falling in love may has just as well died with him. There is no way 30 years is put behind someone after this. I can't believe she did not see this coming as this guy was not able to handle something like this it would have been better for all if she split time between them. And not leave him completely as he raised her daughter and cared for her his entire adult life. I really understood her epiphany at her age but it came at a price of her future happiness as she will always wonder if she should have handled it better. How can she remain with him and be happy even still how can she live without him [the lover and be happy she looses on both fronts.