This man is more of a man than any of the haters (that will be showing up here soon, I'm sure). You, sir, are a true hero, and not just for your service to your country. I am sure you have saved more than a few lives with your play and film.
Straight female also and I loved this story. My husband and I caught this on HBO and finished in tears. Jeff...if you read this...you are a hero and forever will be. What you have done, what you believe and the person you are with that amazing heart inspires me. Thank you for your story and your strength to tell it.
I'm waiting for your your journal to be published!!!! Wink ;-)
I am a former US Marine. I think the "don't ask, don't tell" is an abomination of peoples freedom and right to serve. I found this movie and especially his words very moving. Sorry to see him have to leave. I have heard the "He just wanted out" argument several time. I really don't have much to say to those people. I couldn't imagine the "living a lie" or trying to hide that he was gay. I just think its a common misconception we have as Americans especially. Some of the people claim that it goes against good military discipline to have homosexuals in the service, but no more than it does to have a disporportionally small amount of women around.
All i really have to say is that this was a very honest, open view at a war from a man who may, by virtue of being gay, is more in touch with his feelings than your average man in the service is. That and I think its obvious that the other marines he worked with most likely knew and could have cared less. Its just a stupid backwards system we have there. Honestly, its kind of sad if you ask me.
I watched this documentary with my husband last weekend and I must say that I was personally moved to tears. Bravo Jeff for your bravery and beautiful spirit. I know your parents must be extremely proud of the strong, fine man you have become!