The dark turn and especially the ending make a lot more sense with a better understanding of Korean culture.
The ending is particularly effective because that one seemingly minor gesture alone will upend the lives of a whole slew of people, and not just Jaemin's or those of people near Jaemin. It is indeed an ultimately selfish act of the sort his fiance rebuked him for.
Unlike what someone else suggested, it isn't some immature, rebellious gesture aimed at his parents. Instead, it is a positive declaration, an affirmative gesture. Jaemin chooses his desire, the entirety of his self, and Sumin over the role he has been expected to fulfill. He's risking giving up everything he's known, including his place in society, and facing a very uncertain future. I don't know how anyone who's not familiar with Korean culture could understand the magnitude of that gesture's consequences.
Explaining the dark turn requires a lot more space and energy. Some of its opacity can be blamed on the quality of the subtitles. However, much of the opacity is due to cultural differences. I recommend that you revisit the film and, though difficult, try to see it from within its own logic.
In the past week, I must have watched this film at least 5 times... with many different subtitles, in Korean only with no subtitles, etc. I can't get it out of my system. All I could think was, "This is not my mommy and daddy's Korea..." Just so astounded by this film and the courage required to make it.
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