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parents' reaction at the end..? odd


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did it not seem as though the parents reacted to the news of rachel's death as though they were drugged up/medicated?

their outward behavior just seemed so matter of fact and subduded.. a sort of under-reaction..

i know shock can manifest itself in strange ways sometimes but this bordered on indifference..

i can only surmise that the real barbers must have showed almost no emotion upon hearing the sad news, just as their film counterparts did, being that it was a true story and all, but yikes.. their near indifference just didn't seem in keeping with their tireless quest to find out what had happened to rachel..

just odd I guess although real life is so much stranger than fiction could ever imagine..


it wasn't the fall from her 16th-floor penthouse that killed her, it was the landing

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She had been missing for so long that they pretty much knew she was dead. Hearing the cops finally confirm it was sad, but also a relief, to finally know what happened. So the sadness, relief, the confusion (because it didn't make sense that the neighbor girl would do this) all the conflicting emotions hitting them at once... it leads to kind of a strange reaction. Often times when people have too many emotions to process at once, they just seem blank like that, and over the next few days they'll cry, scream, shout, etc. as they process each emotion individually.

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thank you, lefelicious.. your explanation makes perfect sense.. I just found it a bit odd that they betrayed no emotion upon learning the news.. they were likely far too emotionally drained at that point..

that said, I would've been glad to see them show even an iota of emotion.. even relief.. anything!

it wasn't the fall from her 16th-floor penthouse that killed her, it was the landing

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Lefecious that is an excellent explanation and makes great sense. If not already i think you'd be good in the psychology field haha. Anyway very good post

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To add to the above, people react differently to news of the death of someone they love. If you watch any of the true crime shows, police are suspicious of every reaction to a loved one's death.

Stoic? Too unemotional. That's suspicious.
Wailing and crying? Too emotional. That's suspicious.
Crying but not hysterically? Looks like manufactured tears. That's suspicious.

I have experienced it myself as I had to bite down on a maniacal laugh that tried to come out when I was told of one of my grandmothers dying.

There is no single right way to react.

If I want to hear the pitter patter of little feet, I'll put shoes on the dog. 

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I was like that when I was first told of my grandmother's passing in 1975, and the same as when told of my father's passing in 1982. I was completely numb from head to toe...I had no reaction. But, it hit like a ton of bricks a little later...once I could actually let my brain process it. I didn't want to believe it.

"Ain't life grand!"

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I definitely thought the parents reaction to finding out that their DAUGHTER(highlighted because this is their child we're talking about,not a stranger) is in fact dead was odd.Their reaction reminds me of suspects in tv shows like Criminal Minds and Law And Order(To all the short bus riders.Iam NOT saying her parents are in any way suspects).Later on they showed the scene with the mom going into her daughter's room and she starts crying.They also showed the dad crying really hard in the next scene.I think it's a good thing they showed both of those two scenes because like I said before IN MY OPINION the parents first reaction to being told their child was killed seemed odd.

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I found it odd as well. I'm sure they were in utter shock. Especially after seeing them both break down as they did later after the news settled in. I can't even imagine what my reaction would be. I don't think anyone can unless it is happening to them. But yes, I found it odd indeed.

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