Mans perspective
When she was pregnant my wife starting doing research and quickly realized that as a healthy woman, home birth was the way to go, in order to give her full control, and not let hospital regulations and procedures overrun the way she wanted things to be.
I was horrified. I thought, why not do it in a hospital where things are controlled?
I watched this powerful film and my opinion changed 180 degrees on the spot. I realized home birth was the safest way to go. Eight months later we had a home birth and the experience was incredible. The mid-wife was fantastic and everything went perfect. The mid-wife told me that for a healthy women, taking drugs during birth is like getting drunk for your wedding. Yeah, you can do it, but why not experience things the way they should be? We also took Bradley classes and that helped. We learned that fear of pain/birth process activates adrenalin. Adrenalin is the enemy. When a woman embraces the process, things are far easier.
We had to pay $2800 as our insurance does not cover home birth, (even though homebirth/mid-wives would save the medical system a fortune), but it was worth every penny. Believe me, when a baby is born without drugs, they are SO aware when they come out, they look around, they look at you they are not groggy at all! No one tries to take the baby away, they go right on mothers chest where they belong.