The baby's father was.....

most definitely Jasper's.

You have to look at things inferred AND said.
By the actions between husband and wife, they were disconnected
and were not having sex.
We of course know she had sex with Jasper.

and as for Terrence, he said he thought of them together
but "not like that". "I will be your friend"
and then in the RV, she said "I've thought of us together, so I need you to tell me this is not true" (talking about the fact that he knew about the bomb threat).

So to me, this says she wanted to be with him, but needed to know
this about him FIRST.

There was no doubt left in my mind that it is Jasper's baby.

Now, although I loved the movie, I wouldn't watch it again.
It's not the type of film you can watch over and over... once is enough.

I would of liked to have seen her accept and fall in love with Jasper at the end... however, not enough time had passed so it would of felt 'not right'.

Maybe showing a year later and she is on that beach with her new son and in the distance we see Jasper walking towards her and she looks up and smiles.
I just felt he really really cared about her even though it was a "two-night stand" at first.
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I felt it was unnecessary to mention Osama Bin Laden by name, at the end
as if HE is the ONLY one ever responsible for terrorist bombings.
I think a more general plea for peace was more in order.

I sure would like to have read the letter from the wife of
the bomber. I could see how badly she felt and I'm sure she didn't know what her husband was up to.

With the mom asking the boy what his father was like allowed
us to see that although the father was a bomber, he was also actually a
father and probably a good/funny one.

These suicide bombers have reasons. To them, they are very good reasons and make perfect sense. Of course we don't understand that, nor should we try to understand because suicide bombing is in no way reasonable... or right.

but I am just saying, I am SURE all of us have done something for our reasons even if it made no sense to others.