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Fred's b!+ch of a wife!!!


OK, I know someone's gonna pull "well, he was away/he wasn't there for her/she became independant/blah blah bullcrap" out of their a$$e$, but wasn't Fred's (Tim Robbin's) wife a B!+CH for pulling that STUNT!!?!?!!? Guy just got back from a long tour of duty & she had the nerve to just pull a "I want a divorce" the day he comes back with NO real legitimate reason!?!?!?

What a SUPER fraggin' b!+ch!!!

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The Lucky Ones: 8/10
100 Feet: 6.5/10
Room 205: 5/10
Skeleton Crew: 6.5/10

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Yeah and this, JUST when the kid is going to college.

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you BOTH said it to treat poor Fred that way after his back injury and he had NOTHING but love and admeration in his eye makes you think if she wasn't fooling around while he was in Iraq !

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for some reason, I honestly feel she was telling the TRUTH...I think it finally dawned on her she LIKED being alone, LIKED being independant, LIKED not having a husband to answer to.

Still, the timing of it was God awful! Almost as bad was one of those "Dear John" letters...and I really wanted to SMACK her for pulling the stunt!

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The Lucky Ones: 8/10
100 Feet: 6.5/10
Room 205: 5/10
Skeleton Crew: 6.5/10

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Michal Pena's charicter said more or less the same thing to Rahcel McAdams characiter while Fred was out of the room, Yes, seeing how that movie made me feel alboutr Fred Cheaver/Tim Robbins I to would have done something to her

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jorgito2001, I am with you 100%. She was a total bitch! And she acted like it was nothing just dumping that on him when he had only been there a few minutes. She was so cold.

"Six people in the world and one of them is Bill *beep* Murray!!" Tallahassee

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To give her small credit, she did say she didn't want to lie to him about it for a week or longer. What troubles me more: had she yet told her son? When he says to his dad, "Did Mom tell you?" and Cheever nods sadly, thinking they're talking about the divorce and seconds later, we realize the son is talking about his acceptance into Stanford. So did the boy know his mother wanted a divorce? I don't want to believe he would be as callous as his mother, talking about his need for money seconds after seeing his father after a long absence. Thoughts, anyone?


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I don't think he knew about the divorce. I think he was just excited about getting into Stanford. Maybe he sensed there was something going on with his mom's behavior but I don't believe he actually knew.

"Six people in the world and one of them is Bill *beep* Murray!!" Tallahassee

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Thanks for your thoughts, that was my take on it, too.

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I felt so sorry for him. I thought T.Robbins played this scene perfectly.

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I can only hope he gets satisfaction in court that the judge awards him alimony payment and that she has to pay for the sons education garnished out of her wages as any right thinking judge would have just as low an opinion of her as the audience.
The law in many states does not require parents to provide for their children's education after the child turns 18, even if one or both parents have plenty of money. In other states the age may be 19 or 20. Often, divorce courts encourage or order the parties to come to an agreement on college tuition and student expenses for any children under the state's legal age mentioned above. If the child is already above the prescribed age, the court may lack any authority to force either parent to fund college or any other expenses that realate to that particular child. So, it really all depends on the state law. This may be why Pat Cheever indicated that she had already cautioned Scott that they may not be able to afford the balance of his Stanford tuition.

Courts are most likely to award alimony to the spouse who has the least income or the least means to earn a living commensurate with their pre-divorce standard. Basically you have to convince the court that you need and deserve alimony. The divorce court ultimately decides whether or not to order a party to pay alimony, as well as the amount and the duration of the obligation.

In any case, Pat did indeed seem remarkably selfish. She appeared determined to place her own happiness ahead of her marriage to Frank, and seemed almost indifferent about Scott's dream of attending Stanford. Would a divorce court be sympathetic to her? Probably not, but it also may have lacked authority to order her to pay anyone anything. In fact, after Frank re-enlisted, it is possible that he could have been ordered to pay her alimony, especially if Frank had been the primary bread winner during their marriage and if his current income was more than Pat's. Divorce can be a very tricky experience that may not be entirely fair in every single case. The state law and the judge hearing the case always matters.


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I think it was a very awkward situation, he just met two other people and he was just so confused that she so nonchalantly told him she wanted a divorce. He probably was shocked. I felt terrible for him.

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She had to have something else on her mind, She did not even give him a good welcome home embrace or ask how he was. So she was in opinion just did not even give a dam about him and I suspect about herself either.

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The timing wasn't great at all... but what is she supposed to do if she's no longer in love with him? Lie, because she 'owes' him? Seems like that would hurt more, in the long run. She owes him the truth, which - painful though it was - is exactly what he got.






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