trusting a woman in a movie is easy

> We're sentient beings, not instinct driven creatures, solely driven by instinct and biological urges.

You really have not studied neurology, neuroscience or psychology at all. In my opinion one of the biggest problems, in fact the critical problem of the human race and society, the interactions of individuals and groups and nations is that we have ficticious modeling of the world, mostly around what we really are. Since we do not know we have used the Bible and our arrogance to drive a system that does not work that relies on scarcity, war, violence and slavery.

But not only do you lack perspective on the big-picture, you have the individual picture distorted too. Of course people take marriage and commitment responsibly, but the incentives are for people to behave the way they do. People buy into the new way of looking at things because they are convinced by unbiquitous brainwashing or an errorneous reality, a reality that helps the status quo maintain itself ... and the big way the status quo maintains itself is to pressure people by making them feeling inadequate, insecure, weak, alonem etc... Not only that but we out and out kill people. Look at our food industry.

We implant the ideas that McDonalds is a more trusted entity than our parents or our friends, that we can always go to Ronald for comfort, as long as we pay the bill.

If we want to think differently it means we have to start to find out how we are being so easily manipulated, and it is because psychology, disinformation, brainwashing, works when it is done right. If you get enough people in the snare they pull the rest in. We are herd animals in a sense, we are very sensitive to what others are doing.

It is natural for an islolated person who thinks a certain way to protect themselves by maintaining an outside relationship. It bothers on spouse that another needs to have insurance in case they leave them. Saving themselves from devastation in case things go bad or maintaining an outside objective contact in case of trouble.


The thing is that most people are not honest about what they think or do, so it seems for the hopeless romantic that people are behaving poorly when in fact they just do not know what else to do and are just trying to protect themselves. Of course there are just mean people who cheat as a matter of course, womanizers, and there are sadists and jerks who behave bad because they are fascinated with evil and how powerful it is and solid compared to the risk and uneasiness of good. It's much easier to be childish because there are simply more children and people who will lower themselves to the child level.

Another thing ... read about game theory ... the prisoner's dilemma specifically, you might never see the world the same again .. unfortunately.