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Why was he watching his girlfriend getting banged?


Maybe I fell asleep, ( quite boring really! ) but what was the deal with
what's his name watching his girlfriend get banged by what's his name...can some one help me out on this question.....I don't really wanna watch it again to find out.

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basically...he found it hot...they were a kinky couple so among other things they were into swinging and voyeurism. It turned him on to watch his girlfriend get screwed by another guy.

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Is that all he did just watch, or did he take over when the other guy finished doing his girlfriend?

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What the heck, just watch the movie! It's one of the best sex-related movies ever.

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Yeah, just watch it, the hell's wrong with you?

it's a very funny scene

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its not funny. its sick

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What is? People getting wet & sloppy, banging uglies??

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Completely funny. I couldn't stop laughing, especially when he kept interrupting them to give them direction. LMAO.

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He expalins it at the end.

He thought he wasn't good enough and that his girlfriend deserved to have a sexual experience with a guy like his roommate. He aparently felt genuinely happy about giving that oportunity to his girlfriend.

On the other hand, his girlfriend did it to please him, she wasn't aware of the real reason why her boyfriend wanted her to do it.

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He thought he wasn't good enough and that his girlfriend deserved to have a sexual experience with a guy like his roommate. He aparently felt genuinely happy about giving that oportunity to his girlfriend.


True, he wanted to watch his girlfriend with another guy, but it was pretty clear that the boyfriend had the hots for his male roommate and, couldn't admit it or didn't like that he did, and asking him to have sex with his girlfriend let him get off on not just her, but him as well, allowing him to see his roommate naked, see him with a hard*n and having sex, and without him having to fully admit to himself or either of them how he truly felt.

His sexual attraction to his roommate was intimated during every scene for those characters, in various ways:

At some point in the past, he sought out the opportunity to check out his roommate's d*ck, without the roommate knowing. Sure straight guys will check out other guys in the locker room, to see how they compare, but do you know any straight guys that would spy on their roommate naked to get at look at their d*ck?

Putting his hand on the guy's ass, and not removing it even when the roommate asked him to.

When they take a break, all three are sitting on the side of the bed, very closely, and the boyfriend is sitting next to the roommate and not beside his girlfriend. Most straight guys would sit close to their girlfriend, not another naked guy, don't you think? In this scene, he again references the roommate's d*ck and how big it is.

When the roommate asks why they chose him, the boyfriend gives reasons, saying they wanted someone familiar, that he doesn't really like him, and that once they stop being roommates, he is sure he won't hate him anymore and sure that they will go back to being friends, and ends with 'it's really easier for me to see her doing this with someone, I really, you know, don't like' and as the italics indicate, he annuciated the 'don't like' which pointed to his inability to admit to himself, or let it be known that he was actually sexually attracted to him...right after he says that his girlfriend says 'also Gord finds you pretty attractive' and the boyfriend nods and agrees.

In the next sex scene, just before he gets off, the boyfriend snaps a picture...of the roommate's ass, not his girlfriend's face or naked body.

After he gets off, when he comes back to the room he is naked below the waist, mad about the orange juice, (which wasn't really about the orange juice) and pulls the roommate off and out of his girlfriend, and jumps on him, straddling him, his bare ass sitting on the guy's hard d*ck. The roommate tells him to put clothes on but the boyfriend just keeps sitting on him.

Next they are all sitting on the edge of the bed again, the boyfriend sitting closely next to the naked roommate again and not beside his girlfriend, and this is where he says he did it for her and why, and she says she did it for him. He then talks about how a guy like him doesn't belong with a girl like her and says 'look at this guy, he's got that firm ass, cute nose, and look at this *beep* as he pulls the sheet up and looks at the guy's d*ck. Even in a MMF situation, a truly straight guy would not say those things about the other guy's body parts, nor pull up the sheet to look at his d*ck.

Later they hug and the roommate doesn't like it because their exposed d*cks are touching, but the boyfriend just keeps hugging him, tighter.

After the roommate leaves, there is some conversation and then the girlfriend says 'do you love me, would you do anything for me?' He says 'anything, anything you want baby.' She sort of purrs like she is excited about something and then she gasps like she has an idea and says 'you know I was watching the two of you hug over there, and it was nice, nice and hot!' and he gets a big grin, knowing exactly what she is thinking and you can tell by his wide grin that he is totally into the idea, without her even having to say it.

Even if he was struggling and couldn't admit his feelings, his girlfriend knew, wasn't bothered by it, and seemed to want to help him with 'coming out' with his bisexual feelings or curiosity. This was evidenced by her pointing out, right after the boyfriend went on and on about not being the roommate's friend or even liking him, that the boyfriend found the roommate pretty attractive. In the end she tells him how it was hot seeing him hug the roommate, (keeping in mind that they were both naked below the waist and their 'parts' were touching) which was basically her way of telling him she knows and its ok, and then she tells him she has an idea, indicating, not only is it ok, but now she wants to do it again, this time a threesome, and watch him have sex with the roommate too.

While his motive may have been low self-esteem and wanting to watch a guy he, to his confusion, found he was attracted to, have sex with his girlfriend, her motive seems to have been to help him out with the feelings for his roommate he was struggling to come to terms with. In the end, after the experience, that is exactly what happened and, while the filmakers didn't choose to progress the scene into a bisexual threesome, the viewer was left to believe that a threesome, involving bisexual activites, was going to follow in the near future.


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My only problem with this assessment is that it doesn't describe a truly straight guy, it just describes an insecure guy. A guy secure in his sexuality wouldn't be bothered by sitting next to another naked guy, complimenting a guy's ass, or admitting that the other man is well endowed. I mean the last part is pretty obvious to everyone, its huge!

While one could argue he just wasn't bothered by the other guy's nakedness throughout the whole encounter he did seem rather curious about him, he focused on his roommate more than his girlfriend. And he seemed to use his girlfriend's request to finally act on the aforementioned curiosity.

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I did not pick up on that at all, all i gathered was he wanted to please her and she agreed, I don't think he was gay or bisexual but was curious about how it was for his gal....... One thing i came to the conclusion on is they would never be the same again. whether she acts on getting it on with other guys or not, despite what was talked about after it ended.

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True. I think ryanxxx's analysis is right on except for the labeling. Human sexual attraction and behavior is far more complex than our common labels (hetero/homo/bi/a/perv/whatever) imply, and the labels tend to inhibit us from seeing those complexities. The fact that Gord was interested in seeing Dave having sex with Inez doesn't make him bisexual, it just means he was attracted to this particular situation. Lots of people are attracted to certain elements of certain situations which overlap one of the labels, but that doesn't mean they are totally defined by that label. Similarly, many people will engage once or twice, or occasionally, in a behavior associated with one of the labels yet only overlap just a small slice of the behavior defined by the label.

Edward

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Cuckold fantasies, as they're called when you want to watch your wife/girlfriend with another man, are pretty common, ranging from 1) the desire to see her pleasured, 2) the ability to sort of "direct your own porn", 3) engage in voyeurism, and 4) enjoy a sense of erotic humiliation at the idea that you can't satisfy her, that you're not enough of a man for her so that someone else has to do the job.

I'd say all were going on here, except perhaps that #4 was more practical, and not something getting him off.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cuckold#Cuckoldry_as_a_fetish

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It's the porn watching that does that to you. After a while, guys are so used to being spectators in sex that it turns some of them on to watch their gf with another guy. I don't think it's got anything to do with cuckold crap porn, it's just that when they're "in it", they can get so into it, they don't really experience it the way they'd like to.
So by having their gf bang another dude, they can see her in action.

Don't ask me, it makes no sense to me either but that's the conclusion I've come to from talking to friends who had this fantasy.

I think it's not necessarily very far from the lesbian fantasy except maybe that's for the most insecure ones because they think they're "safe" with no other guy in the picture. Haha. poor dudes, if they only knew.

For every lie I unlearn I learn something new - Ani Difranco

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