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How can an unchosen birth trait be a sin?


I'm gay and have ONLY experienced being attracted to males. when i hit puberty i was attracted to MALES.

I don't think at age 12 in a school where i was already bullied i'd choose to be gay.

even before puberty i was attracted to males ONLY. I simply don't understand how a self evident trait (my sexual orientation) can be considered a sin.

I always assumed a sin was both an ACTION and something you CHOSE and the sin had to apply equally to all people.

It makes religion so silly and ignorant when they're telling people that it's a sin for God to create people in a way that God apparently did.

It makes absolutely no sense.

it's absolutely no less silly than claiming that being white is a sin or having red hair is a sin.

What do they want us to do about it? die and be reborn differently.

Also, i would be the ultimate expert in whether or not i chose to be gay, since i've experienced being me my whole life, and not only NEVER CHOSE to be gay i spent years trying to 'become straight' which only lead to psychological HARM.

IF God wanted me to be straight than why was i created gay and why does it harm me if i try to 'become straight?'

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a problem in an organized religious mind is this concept that we are above the animals. animals aren't organized into a faith. we can't be an animal. because they don't see that we are animals they negate the fact that animals have gay members of their species. sometimes bi sexual. so humans being animals, some turn out gay. the thing is we are animals, but we stride to not be animalistic. we are civilized.

"Hating on haters is a form of Hatin!"

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Yes, we're civilized, which is why we don't have sex in public, like animals.

What we see and what we seem are but a dream. A dream within a dream.

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very true but is gay sex in private relate to public straight sex? i think not


"Hating on haters is a form of Hatin!"

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According to the Bible we are all conceived in sin. We have a fallen nature by default (since Adam and Eve sinned in the Garden and were banished). Not only that but the entire world is in a sinful state, that is why it continues to decay, until the Apostle Peter writes it will ultimately be destroyed by fire. Satan is "the god of this world" (2 Corinthians 4:4), not Jesus Christ. This can be seen clearly when Satan tempted Jesus in the wilderness. Satan showed Jesus all the many kingdoms of the earth and said all this he would give to Jesus if he only kneeled down and worship him instead of God the Father; Jesus wisely turned Satan down. "My kingdom is not of this world" Jesus stated. His was a Spiritual kingdom, not a physical one, which is why Jesus told Nicodemus "Ye must be born again." (Spiritually). Nicodemus, an OT Jew, had no idea what Jesus was talking about. Sadly today the majority of people still don't, even millions who sit in churches every Sunday and call themselves Christians.

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and what does that have to do with anything? becoming born again will not make me a NON sexual being nor change my sexual orientation? do straight christians have sex and marry?

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Your ridiculous man-made book doesn't even agree with itself but you expect other people to agree with it. Stop quoting from a book where you choose to ignore the majority of its contents but only cling on to the ones that allows discrimination.

There are numerous bible translations & thousands of christian denominations. Which one do you belong to?

A magical garden, with 2 magical white people, a magical tree with magical fruit & a magical talking snake, seriously? Doesn't that sound a little fabricated?

If I'm wrong & the christian god does exist, he is a *beep* not worthy om my love, respect or worship.

And if we, homo sapiens need a powerful intelligent creator, just imagine how powerful & intelligent gods creator must be. Yes, by that logic god also needs a creator.

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I was born single, but fornication is a sin. Babies are born addicted to crack because of the choices of their parents--is that their fault?

Psychopaths are also born that way. Their brains lack the basic wiring that trigger empathy and compassion. New science also provides strong evidence that people are born pedophiles.

Everyone is born with iniquities. Just because the physical nature of how someone is put together is involved in their identity, it doesn't mean that everything about them is whole. If that were so, then psychopaths and pedophiles also deserve compassion when they murder or molest children. They can't help it--they were actually born that way. People say that it's different because they are harming others, but if they were born with a brain and chemical mix to do those things and they can't help it, why don't we feel sorry for them?

People don't say things like this out loud because the general public will then say,"Oh you hate gays! You are calling them pedophiles and psychopaths!" No, I am calling them born into sin like the rest of the world's population. My natural inclinations do not pardon me from obedience.

Single straight Christians spend decades without having sex because of their conviction about having sex outside of marriage. People who don't believe the Bible is the Word of God would think they are crazy or at the least worthy of pity for refusing their basic drive for sex.

At the end of the day, these are my opinions, but I have to answer for myself so I worry about my own sins the most. Conviction comes from the Holy Spirit.

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-everyone is born single

-drug use/addiction is not a sin

-you are indeed comparing homosexuality to pedophilia

I suggest you watch the South Park episode with NAMBLA, and especially pay attention to the point made at the end about how it should be blatently obvious as to why the two are incomparable.

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I don't usually use South Park as a guide to morality or science.

Comparing homosexuality to pedophilia or sociopathy I would do because they both have to do with brain abnormalities that cause behavior that is not main stream or normal. Comparing them is not making them the same thing but again, if people are born a certain way, then why aren't we more compassionate about their behaviors or readily available to lend help?

This has nothing to do with the Bible. Forget religion. Most societies don't need a moral compass to understand that pedophilia is "wrong." That doesn't change anything about people being born pedophiles. There is more and more evidence that pedophiles are born that way. So are people with every form of mental illness. But we don't want them walking around the way they are born lest the shootings at theaters and schools keep growing--which it is. But that's another story all together.

What do you find offensive about NAMBLA? There are people in in other countries that marry teenagers frequently and it's accepted as a part of the culture. The language they are using demonstrates they would like the child's consent to carry on what their "natural" instincts tell them to do.

It is interesting for me to consider how rules and regulations and what is normal and what is not normal is perceived without a standard of morality--and many times even with one. But I think both sides of the fence are afraid to acknowledge some basic truths, morally speaking or scientifically speaking.

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I think you are on to something here...getting above the fray of this conversation into the deeper conversation that is happening is that we are exploring physicality/functionality of the brain we begin to understand "why" people do things...but using the causality to dictate what is acceptable societal behavior seems to be a broken methodology.

For instance, criminals who have violent tendencies due to brain structure--which seems to be scientifically accurate--is already being used to negate how we deal with undesirable activity as a society. This is at the heart of the debate about criminalization and incarceration vs. mental health treatment.

And to be clear, I am not saying that homosexual behavior is a mental disorder, but I am saying that using the "born this way" argument with scientific support does not automatically mean a behavior is or should be societally acceptable.

One last thought on morality, all of these discussions are rooted in moral disagreement. Both sides stand on morality to make their case...which is why it is such a passionate and divisive issue. In fact this film itself is a moral argument.

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Well said adrnlize!

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You know what the best part of these debates is now? The fact that delusional simpletons like this guy have officially lost the war. You're free to just sit back and laugh at how pathetic they are, without the anger that accompanies the thought of these fairy tales having influence over anyone, or anything. You're just one step closer to complete irrelevance, and it can't come soon enough.

TooYoungToCare

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I know this is a rather old post, but I felt it unfair to post in this thread without responding to your original question/thoughts.

Now that it's several years later (and much change) what have you learned through your own experience? What conclusions did you come to? Lastly, why do you concern yourself with sin at all? If you read this I would love to hear more (and I know you don't owe it to me or anyone else.)

Thanks!

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That's why they strive so hard to force the idea that being gay is a choice, not an innate characteristic. Because then they can condemn it, and demand that people suppress it. As you clearly recognise, they don't actually know anything about it; it's empty ideology.

That, and their Plan B (the "God loves the sinner but hates the sin" sophistry) is something that makes me disgusted by modern Christianity, especially the American strain. (I consider it Paulinism rather than Christianity, but that's a different conversation.)

I think the only thing we can do is to recognise that it's just their construct. It's not objective reality. It's going to be hard if you want to be part of a congregation that holds that view, but beyond that, you don't need to take it on.



You might very well think that. I couldn't possibly comment.

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My entire life, I have always had an uncontrollable compulsion to steal and lie. No matter how hard I tried to retrain my brain, the attraction to commit these acts has always been overwhelming.

Does attraction justify action? If not all cases, why only yours? Why can't other sins be pardoned.

Ridiculous logic.

It's called TEMPTATION and guess what? EVERYONE struggles with it. Even Jesus Christ Himself. You have no basic concept of what morality is. Morality is withholding from certain behaviors despite the desires you might have.

Please get your Hippie value of "if it feels good, do it" out of the conscious of Christianity. Sickening stuff from the OP.

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